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So, I slipped up.. I couldn't control myself!! WHY AM I SUCH A FUCKING IDIOT?!!?? I was going great, until my step mum decided to butt in and make my life a LIVING-FUCKING-HELL
I promised My anonymously smexxy friend to not make it big. But it slipped. I couldn't control it,
I'm so fucking stupid. I hate my life. I just wanna fucking DIE!!!
I FUCKING HATE MYSELF!!!! I can't fucking control it anymore. I fucking hate it!!!
Well, here's to wht I call a FUCKING POINTLESS POST!!!
   
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Re: Really fucked up this time. - March 22nd 2012, 02:41 PM

Hey,

Everybody slips up sometimes. You're human, you're allowed to make mistakes.

You aren't stupid either. They very fact that you've been trying so hard suggests that you're an extremely strong and admirable person.

Does your step mum know how much of a rough time you're having? Maybe you should talk to her and tell you how you feel- she might be able to help. And support during rough times is priceless.

Forget your slip up. It's over. Start again.

Good luck and stay strong <3



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Re: Really fucked up this time. - March 22nd 2012, 09:21 PM

No, she doesn't listen. She just doeesn't care.
   
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Re: Really fucked up this time. - March 22nd 2012, 09:28 PM

She might not know just how difficult you're finding life at the minute. Is there anybody else you could talk to?



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Re: Really fucked up this time. - March 22nd 2012, 09:29 PM

Not really... They'd make this situation out to be a joke
   
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Re: Really fucked up this time. - March 22nd 2012, 09:35 PM

If you really opened up to them, I'm sure they wouldn't make you're situation into a joke. I'm sure they'd want to help you because they'd be concerned about you. If not, we're always here for you on here, whatever you want to talk about and for support. But do try to find someone to talk to that can be physically close to you, as their support will be very valuable.

You're never alone. Stay strong



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Re: Really fucked up this time. - March 22nd 2012, 09:45 PM

Who have you tried talking to? If talking to your step mom doesn't work, can you try talking to a counselor or nurse at school?
You can't say that talking to someone will not work until you have tried talking to people.
It can be hard to start talking about self harm so maybe a letter would be a good way to explain it to someone.
Also, does your stepmum know about your self harm and if self harm is a hard topic to discuss with her, maybe printing information about it and why people hurt themselves could help her be better at understanding.
I hope this helps.
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Re: Really fucked up this time. - March 22nd 2012, 10:26 PM

I tried talking about self harm with my councilor, and she never understood.. My step mum wouldn't understand depression if it slapped her in the face!!!
She's just not an understanding person
   
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Re: Really fucked up this time. - March 23rd 2012, 10:17 AM

Close friends or other members of your family? Sometimes, talking to people who aren't directly involved in the "situation" can give clearer advice, because they can almost look at it from a different point of view.

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Re: Really fucked up this time. - March 23rd 2012, 09:43 PM

I know. <3
   
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