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wanting to be fucked up - April 1st 2012, 11:35 PM

is it weird that i just want to be fucked up. like i already have depression issues, but now i want to cut. like i seriously want to be fucked up...is this normal, like do other people feel this way or am i being stupid????


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Re: wanting to be fucked up - April 2nd 2012, 01:26 AM

I'm not sure if I understand what you mean by being "fucked up". Are you talking about physical harm, or something else?
   
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Re: wanting to be fucked up - April 2nd 2012, 03:14 AM

Like cut up bleeding, drunk, high, anything but me


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Re: wanting to be fucked up - April 2nd 2012, 08:42 PM

It's not neccessarily "normal" or "abnormal". There really is no "normal" except for what the media projects at us as "normal". Everybody is different, and the only "normal" there really is is what is average for you.

I understand wanting to feel fucked up, as you put it. Wanting to have something to blame, maybe feeling like you're already messed up so why not go as far as you can? I've been there. It sucks.

It sounds to me like you want possibly somebody to notice and help you. Or maybe you want this for a completely other reason. What matters is stopping yourself before you really mess up beyond repair.

I suggest therapy, because therapists are non-judgemental, and they're there to help and listen to you.

Also, if you don't want to go or can't afford therapy, try beating up a pillow. Hit it, punch it, rip it to shreds. It helps, trust me.

If you ever need to talk, please PM me; I'm almost always on and all I want is for people to feel better about themselves.


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Re: wanting to be fucked up - April 2nd 2012, 08:52 PM

I don't think it's normal. But it's exactly how i feel. Somehow i don't feel bad enough depression wise to warrant the help of others. As i'm writing this i don't feel good enough. I feel that by completely losing control and going mad that people will actually help me, hence why i have considered cutting, overdosing etc. I don't understand it either. Does any of this sound like you at all?
   
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Re: wanting to be fucked up - April 3rd 2012, 12:45 AM

yes...but im not sure i want help... at least not form my parents im so over trying to get their attention


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Re: wanting to be fucked up - April 3rd 2012, 08:03 PM

Im the same about my parents to be honest
   
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Re: wanting to be fucked up - April 3rd 2012, 08:36 PM

The only way to get attention from your parents is by telling them your depression. It's not normal to feel like you want to cut yourself but i have heard everyone does it in their life time. You do need help because cutting yourself isn't the right thing to do. You still need help.
   
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