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Unhappy Hurt, Need Help - April 9th 2012, 03:45 AM

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Last week my boyfriend broke up with me because i wouldnt marry him , his friends keep coming up to me and touching me and his girl friends to, they all treat me life a toy since we broke up and they threaten to kill me if i tell anyone theyve raped me before ive been self harming since i was 5 for other reasons to but what do i do ive trie the butterfly project but i always end up killing my butterflys , or someone else does. i might die soon if they dont kill me ill kill myself. i dont know what to do.
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Re: Hurt, Need Help - April 9th 2012, 03:54 AM

First of all, getting upset because a guy hasn't agreed to marry you at 16 years old is a bit silly. Let me put it this way, most guys aren't mature enough to feel comfortable enough to settle down that much until they're AT LEAST in their early 20's, if not later. My oldest brother and his high school sweetheart didn't marry until less than a year ago, and he's 28! Despite the fact they had 2 kids together beforehand, he still wasn't ready to get married. Guys are just like that sometimes, and the age varies from guy to guy. Don't take it as him insulting you, but more like him admitting he's not mature enough to make that kind of decision (and not meaning to be insulting, it's just you're still teens!).

Second, have you considered seeing a counselor or therapist? Self-harm is never good, and perhaps seeing a professional who can help you with coping mechanisms, and even getting you additional help if needed, would be a good idea.

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