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Porn. - September 5th 2012, 10:07 PM

I'm an 18 year old girl and I enjoy watching porn. It never used to bother me but recently my boyfriend discovered that I watched it. He rarely masturbates himself and claims to dislike porn and when he saw my history, he was not impressed. Should I be ashamed of my habit? Should I stop? Or should it not matter?
   
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Re: Porn. - September 6th 2012, 12:55 AM

Meh. I don't see a problem with porn unless you use it to start isolating yourself from other people, and it becomes your only source of sexual "contact." As long as it doesn't get in-between your relationship, you should be fine. Enjoy


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Re: Porn. - September 6th 2012, 01:53 AM

There's nothing wrong with watching porn as long as it doesn't interfere with other aspects of your life. Watching porn is actually a pretty common and normal thing to do amongst teens and young adults.


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Re: Porn. - September 6th 2012, 02:10 PM

Hey, It's normal to watch porn but like others have said if it interferes with your relationships and your life then that be a problem where you should watch it less. When I say it interferes with your life I mean when you watch porn so much and you can't do anything else but that then that's where it needs to stop.
   
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Re: Porn. - September 7th 2012, 06:23 AM

You shouldn't. This is very normal.

You assumed it would open up your relationship more. Your boyfriend isn't accepting of it. Maybe he feels he isn't doing a job as your companion so he gets fired up about it. That of course is not the case.


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Re: Porn. - September 12th 2012, 12:20 AM

Its Normal.
But if you want it to stop,
I would do it maybe 1 time a day.
If you want to do it less 3 times a week.
   
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Re: Porn. - September 14th 2012, 05:31 AM

Id like to point our just because something is common doesnt make it a good or ok thing. Porn is an iffy subject, personally I hate it, I knew my boyfriend was watching it and had a bunch on his computer, and I tried to be ok with it and let it go and pretend like it didnt exist but he saw how it made me feel and how it upset me and deleted all of it right in front of me. I was so grateful that he did that for me and showed how much he loved and cared about me. Now depending on how serious your relationship is I might consider stopping....he might really appreciate it. Just a thought. But if you do stop dont do it regrettably or make him feel bad for making you stop, make sure it's your choice.
   
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Re: Porn. - September 14th 2012, 06:02 AM

Don't worry,in Commerce we spend most of the time watching Porn, mostly female on female :P Lol, it's quite normal, even me, a sexually dense, still not reached sexual maturity (I evolved into physicial maturity instead which I am highly proud of), girl watches it (I really should stop calling myself girl, I hate it when others say girl, I prefer the term lady. That is what I am, Lady, hehheehehe, I sound so royal).

But, yeah, I agree with the others, if it comes in between your relationship is porn (watching strangers do it) or a loving relationship with your boyfriend, more important?

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Re: Porn. - September 14th 2012, 08:55 AM

ctrl + p ;p
Seriously though, don't stop watching porn, it's your choice to watch it and it's perfectly normal to do so. If you're worried about him finding your search history just delete it or used private browsing
   
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