TeenHelp



You are not registered or have not logged in

Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!)

As a guest on TeenHelp you are only able to use some of our site's features. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to:

Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now!

We hope you consider joining us and hope to see you around!


TeenHelp Features
HelpLINK
Articles Videos

Search TeenHelpAdvanced


Addictive Behaviours This forum is for questions about addictions not related to substance use, such as gambling, Internet, sex or work addictions.

Closed Thread
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
  (#1 (permalink)) Old
Rainbow Dash Offline
Pokémon Master!

Outside, huh?
**********
 
Rainbow Dash's Avatar
 
Name: Ceilidh
Age: 20
Gender: Female
Location: Godric's Hollow

Posts: 4,466
Join Date: August 31st 2009

I'm worried about my sister (gambling) - July 29th 2010, 03:23 PM

My sister is the manager in the pub I work in. She's there a lot on her own doing paper work, cleaning, waiting for barrels to be delivered etc. She gets bored a lot and plays the fruit machine. At first I seen nothing wrong with it, I mean I play it myself. The thing is she doesn't know when to stop and she's playing it everyday :| It obviously wasn't paying out yesterday but she kept putting money in, in the end she won £10 but put it back in, she then won £11 and put £10 back in.

She has told me she's sometimes in the house and is tempted to go up there just to play it :/ I'm scared it may turn into an addiction, I think it may be slowly.

She doesn't really listen to me when I tell her to stop though :| At least when I win something I don't put it back in and know when to walk away. What should I say to her?



Buddy & Videos Officer
  Send a message via MSN to Rainbow Dash  
  (#2 (permalink)) Old
MadPoet Online
Ready to come alive. <3
Outside, huh?
**********
 
MadPoet's Avatar
 
Name: Amanda.
Age: 16
Gender: Female.
Location: Michigan.

Posts: 4,616
Join Date: January 8th 2009

Re: I'm worried about my sister (gambling) - July 29th 2010, 04:12 PM

I would just sit down with your sister sometime when the two of you are alone, and let her know how you feel about this, and that you are concerned that this is going to turn into an addiction. Let her know that you care about her and that you don't want that to happen to her, and are worried about her. Hopefully she will listen and realize that she's been gambling excessively. I hope that everything goes well :] Good luck.
   
  (#3 (permalink)) Old
Emily. Offline
taste the sky
Experienced TeenHelper
******
 
Emily.'s Avatar
 
Name: Emily
Age: 21
Gender: Female
Location: middle of nowhere

Posts: 685
Join Date: February 3rd 2009

Re: I'm worried about my sister (gambling) - July 29th 2010, 10:33 PM

I don't have much to add except to agree with what Amanda said. All you can do is tell your sister you're worried and how you feel and hope she'll take that concern into consideration. Ultimately it's her decision, though. You can only be there for her.


"Sometimes it's a struggle to be not who you want to be, not who you used to be, not who you're going to be,
but just being right where you are, who you are"


Live Help Operator
Performance Committee
Rape & Abuse and Addictive Behaviors Forum Moderator
pm me
   
Closed Thread

Bookmarks

Tags
gambling, sister, worried

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off





All material copyright ©1998-2012, TeenHelp Inc. All rights reserved.
TeenHelp Inc. is a registered 501(c)(3) not-for-profit organisation in the United States of America.
Terms | Legal | Privacy | Conduct

Powered by vBulletin®.
Copyright ©2000-2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search engine optimization by vBSEO.
Theme developed in association with vBStyles.