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Lightbulb My short and long term goals. - July 28th 2010, 03:09 AM

Today I will study for my drivers test, start and finish a painting, and then run for half an hour to an hour.
I will complete my homework
I will complete my job applications
Then tomorrow I will turn them in.
I will talk to the cute girl who works at the QFC that I've been making mild hey there sexy eye contact with.
I will pick up another job app on the way to my friends house.

I will rebuild my social confidence. There is no reason for people to dislike me, and it is not my job to monitor what they think of me. All I have to consider is if I like them or not.

I will strive to get better at grammar and receive all A's in my classes this year. I will try and make friends with my teachers. I will do better in math.

My goals for boundaries with people are that they will not make suggestions about managing my life. They will not say I'm sorry, and will only be happy for me when something good happens. I will not let people into my life who are a**holes. No one who attempts to teach me when I do not ask for it. No one who states that I am or will do something a certain way. No one who talks to me in a condescending way. No one who belittles me and makes me feel childish or stupid. They must have empathy! No psychopaths! No manipulators! All relationships will be emotional based. Kind people who like and care about me and who I like and care about.

As for boyfriends/girlfriends they must.... Be willing to make time for me. Not just fitting me in between priority's! They must fallow through on promises to text and call. Recognize and respect my boundary's! If I talk about fears and emotions they do not call me needy or insecure ect. I will not try and rationalize, intellectualize, or cope to stay in a relationship!

If you have any suggestions on setting boundary's for protection they are very welcomed.
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Re: My short and long term goals. - July 29th 2010, 08:33 PM

Hello. How's it going?

That all sounds really good.

What jobs are you applying for?

- Remember, you cannot control others. Only yourself and who you surround yourself with.

Good luck!

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I'd give all I have, honey. - If you could stay like that.
Stay this little. - - I won't let nobody hurt you.
Just try to never grow up. - - Never grow up.
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Re: My short and long term goals. - August 12th 2010, 03:25 AM

Those are awesome goals! What jobs are you applying for???
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