Is this abuse?

[I ♥ Jehovah Shalom!]

Idk what to do. My youth pastor called his lawyer and then his lawyer called CPS for me because I told someone from my church that things have been happening to me from my uncle. But Idk if people will consider it abuse.

If he acts like he trips on something to touch my chest, if he gives me something for being sick he touchs the side of my top half and slowly pulls his hands away or tries to check my lungs (I'm very sick, just saying.) but he check through my chest and tried to get his hands in my bra, and he did then started curessing me until I pulled away but he still kept trying..

He's also peeked into the bathroom window way more time than I can count, hes opened the bathroom door when I was getting dressed after a shower and he sometimes like to watch me walk up the stairs to my room. Its seriously gotten to the point to where I'm afraid to shower, go to the bathroom or sleep cuz I'm scared that he'll come in my room or through my window (my window leads from my room to the front porch) just to do something to me...

Idk if I should tell them who it is.. I mean should I? He lives with me and I DON'T know if I should really. Should I tell them it's my uncle? Should I let them call CPS after I tell them....
WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!

[fallen fairy]

we can't tell you what to do, only you can decide that for you're self but what you are describing does sound like something you're uncle should not be doing nor should any male or female for that matter with out you saying yes, and allowing it to be done.

it's great that you told you're youth pastor and if you are scared to go to sleep i do think you should tell CPS but...as i said previously we can't tell you what to do only you can decide that

good luck

[abbyxoxo95]

you should deffinatly not be living with someone who is doing this to you. If this is to an extent where you are afraid to sleep in your own house and shower this is not a good situtation. nobody can tell you what to do but this is not an appropriate living environment. I hope everything works out well for you. Good Luck!

[BrittneyNicole]

You shouldn't have to live in fear and in this situation. What your uncle is doing is totally inappropriate. I'm proud of you for telling your pastor about this since it takes a LOT of courage. It's ultimately up to you on whether you say who is doing this but if it were me, I'd tell. There is no reason you should have to live like this.

[Brooke Basketcase]

As people have said it is wrong for you to be living in fear, so you should tell CPS, or threaten to. Make sure it doesn't happen again and such because one things leads to another.. I'm not trying to freak you out =[ it's just true.

[LucyLouWho]

It's no fun to live in fear, so something needs to be done about this. You shouldn't have to be afraid of what might happen in your own house. The things he's been doing certainly aren't right and he needs to know that he can't do those things. I really do think that it's necessary to let CPS know so something can be done. But this is your decision. Just know that I'm here to talk if you ever need to, okay?

[I ♥ Jehovah Shalom!]

I was told to tell someone from my church when it happens again.. But I don't know if I should I'm scared to cuz he might do something and I might ruin everyon elses life.

[LucyLouWho]

You won't ruin everyone else's life. Is there anywhere you can stay after you tell someone if you decide to? Maybe if you let the person that you tell know that you're afraid that he's going to do something, they'll let you stay with them until everything gets figured out.

[I ♥ Jehovah Shalom!]

I thought so too, but the thing is... She engaged and really won't want me there. And I tried to tell her today but I couldn't cuz I dont wanna hurt anybody.. I mean how would you feel if you knew that your cousin would kill you cuz they leave you and would do anything to get revenge?