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Arrrh! She jus dnt get it!!! - September 24th 2009, 03:03 PM

Hi
Ok so my best friend has been wit this guy for about a year and a half now, He treats her like crap, she lets him walk all over her, and he always gets his own way! He is soo domainering and if he dont want her doing something she doesnt, basically wot ever he says goes! He's cheated on her n he is now starting to break me n her apart, Plus Last nite She told me that he started shoving n knocking her around! I was like wtf! She sed that he was in a bad mood n he jus turned, Like jus started shoving her.
He is like twice her size n he is really arrogant. She dont say anything to him about it, cos she says it'll start an arguement.
I just dnt no wot to say to her, i mean I sed that If you keep letting him get away with it, he is guna start hitting you everytime you say summert or do summert he dnt like, but she jus doesnt get it!!! I mean yh she does to a certain extent cos she was really upset about it, but she jus doesnt get How bad its guna get if she dnt stop letting him walk all over her!!!
I jus dnt no wot to say or do, I mean I no its none of my business but I jus wanna be there for her, n I jus care alot about her, she's my best friend... n I hate seein her upset/hurt etc
If anyone cud plz Give me any advice etc It wud be soo helpful.
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Re: Arrrh! She jus dnt get it!!! - September 26th 2009, 07:16 AM

People in abusive relationships have to reach a point on their own where enough is enough. All you can do is remind her that life without him isn't so bad and that she deserves more than that. Be presistant but don't push too hard to where she doesn't care to talk to you. She will accept what is happening in her own time and its hard to say how bad it will get before she does. Just be there for her and help her through this. I'm sorry she is going through this but she needs a good friend. If you ever need to talk you can message me. Take Care.

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