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my mom is being abusive towards me, yet I know she cant help it - November 20th 2009, 03:40 AM

My mother is being abusive towards me. She somehow cant help it though.

She has frequent mood swings which she blames on meds she takes to anxiety, depression and A.D.D,.

She will get angry at me out of no where and cuss at me, calling me a bitch, a slut, a whore ect.,
She wont even recognize what she's doing is wrong when she does this, almost like she's unconscious of it.
It's harassment!

She scream at me to get out of 'her' apartment or 'her' car and claim that she can do whatever she wants.

After wards she acts sweet towards me and doesnt even seem to remember what she's done to me, only my fighting back with yelling and cussing!
She asks me what my problem is!

She seems to do mental back-flips that convince her that SHE is innocent and SHE has been victimized.

I dont know what to do, my grandmother (her mom) does this all the time! Im afraid she'll never get over this!

She didnt used to be like this, it's like one of those childhood nightmares of your mother leaving forever. I just want her back.
   
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Re: my mom is being abusive towards me, yet I know she cant help it - November 20th 2009, 10:09 AM

I have anxiety depression and add and add, and blpd, I don't flip out on my kids. There is no excuse, emotional abuse is abuse, tell someone!


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Re: my mom is being abusive towards me, yet I know she cant help it - November 20th 2009, 11:19 AM

Hi la_strange,

What your mum is doing isn't right. Have you tried talking to her when she isn't in a mood.
If your mum doesn't believe that she is acting in this way then record her and play it back to her.
How old are you if you don't mind me asking?

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