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Unhappy hating - January 14th 2010, 09:53 PM

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hate the images i want them to go away they wont and i want them too so badly i just cant live in fear of not wanting to do it anymore i don't want to do this anymore i just want it over. james came back and ruined everything i thought was safe isn't i just don't know what to do anymore he makes me feel horrible all the time and every time i see him i get more and more images. i dont know how much more i can take i hate him i want to yell and scream at him i just cant do this anymore. he is a dumb person i know that and it wasn't my fault y did he have to go in my safe haven where no one could hurt me now i have no safte haven to get away from him i dont want to do this anymore. i cant keep myself safe anymore the wall is broken how do i make it again i want him to go away i cant do it with him here every time i see him i feel worse and worse and i just want it all to go away i want it to end i wish he was still away where i didnt see him he decided to come here y woud he do that i hate him and me. i just want it all to end
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Re: hating - January 14th 2010, 10:55 PM

[Edited by Mel: Please don't post graphic details on how you'd hurt another person. Such details are inappropriate and may be upsetting to others.]

im sorry that happened to you and i think that you should call the police on him or something.


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Re: hating - January 15th 2010, 12:09 AM

Hey Amanda,

I know you must be going through such a difficult time right now. Abuse is never easy to deal with, but I know you have the strength to get through this. Keep fighting; your future is worth it, YOU are worth it.

I do think that perhaps you should consider talking to someone about what's going on. That must sound so scary right now, but it is so worth it in the end. You deserve to feel safe, to be free of all this hurt. Talking to someone about this could help you to achieve that. You could talk to a family member, a close friend, a professor, even the police. The most important thing is that you get out of this situation.

Take care, and if you need to talk about anything, just let me know.

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Re: hating - January 15th 2010, 04:34 AM

Hey Amanda,

You need to tell someone. You don't have to see him, not if you don't want to, if you're not ready to see him. Talking about it can help, and reaching out will help. Tell your parents, friends, or even a counselor, let someone know that he's still bothering you. You don't have to do this alone.

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Re: hating - January 15th 2010, 11:26 PM

I'm so sorry you've had to go through this. Nobody should ever have to experience something like that.
Can't you get away from this peron, or call the police on him? You should definitely report him, because he shouldn't get away with doing something like that.
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