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Recurring - January 19th 2010, 12:56 PM

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It's been a few months since anything last happened, but for some reason, the past week or so, I keep having nightmares about the things that happened...

Last night my boyfriend took a sleep pill and kept touching me (not sexually), so it was no big deal...except I got scared and yelled at him. I trust him. I KNOW he would NEVER do anything, but I was still scared...

=/ What do I do? I'm tired. I can't sleep. I'll explain more later when I'm home if anyone cares to listen.
   
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Re: Recurring - January 19th 2010, 01:15 PM

i'm going to be the first to say something.

sometimes we all have relapses.. but the fact remains that memories.. remains just that.. memories what you currently have beside you now is someone who you can trust and brings happiness to you. Despite sometimes being uncomfortable because of the past, you have to tell yourself and convince yourself that the truth is.. the current boyfriend can be trusted ... and he is someone who is trying and will do his best to comfort and care for you.

and the same goes for the rest of us

*hugs you tightly * and me too especially... you can always tell us anything !


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Re: Recurring - January 19th 2010, 02:06 PM

Thanks babe. I know it's just a relapse, but I don't understand why. There's two events that keep coming back up. One thing being an ex got upset about his "true love" being hit by her boyfriend, whom she has a child with. We're "good friends" still, and when I told him what happened to me, all he had said was, "That's going to happen, it's part of life."

So...it made me wonder if I deserved it?
   
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Re: Recurring - January 19th 2010, 02:11 PM

just dont think too much about it.. it's all in the past

and you dont deserve it.. its all a bad happening and it's going to remain just that... you're in save company now, alright?

just forget about the events.. remember everything's better now.


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