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Things where going so well... - May 26th 2010, 03:40 AM

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I had collasped into my old habits, but my family made me back into the girl that says sorry for existing, sorry for the 'mistakes' I am making, sorry for everything I am doing right now.

There is also a uneasy feeling that the emotional abusive guy I was with for three years is around me, and trying to hurt me in a more way. There is also nightmares that I been having like this one dream when I was in a house and the guy kept locking me in this house and when I finally got out I just walked out. It feels like I would never escape from him even when I try to move on!
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Re: Things where going so well... - May 26th 2010, 11:46 PM

Hey there.

It sounds like you are having a really hard time dealing with some experiences from your past. I hope you know none of what your ex put you through is your fault. Have you ever tried talking with a therapist or counselor? I know it can be a hard thing to do, but they can really help you work through everything you've been through and find healthy ways to cope. Once you get things out in the open and talk about them, it's easier to heal and move past those hard times. Plus it's just really nice to have someone who won't judge and has to keep your confidence.

And it's okay to relapse into bad habits sometimes. The important thing is to be able to recognize that the habits are unhealthy and work on not needing them again. It may take some time, but you can do it. You've already done it once, you can do it again. And you do not have to apologize for going through a hard time, hun. Everyone struggles once-in-a-while. You can get through this.

I hope you're doing okay right now. Please don't be afraid to reach out for help and I'm here if you ever want to talk.
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Re: Things where going so well... - May 27th 2010, 05:41 AM

Well it is complicated, I can't really afford to talk to anyone right now in less I am back in school and I do not want my girlfriend knowing I am starting to fall back into my old habits (we live together in the dorm room), but I will try to get over it again maybe it is because I am back home and a lot of the things happened at the house I am staying in which scares me in away because of all the memories that have happened here.
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