help please

[summermorgan]

ok, i need help i got raped at new years and havent told anyone, i had never had sex before then and couldnt get over it. So i had sex with a guy i thought i could trust and now he calls me a slut and skank and does everything to make me miserable, its working i can't talk to anyone about it, i need help please

[lostandalone]

Hi there !

I understand how you feel. Please see that he is keeping things "in control" through intimadation. You need to take the control back. The first step is to talk to someone about it. Teenhelp is a great place to start. You can pm me anytime or a close friend. Eventually you should see a councilor for further help.

You also need to to understand under no circumstances is it your fault. No matter what.

There are more steps, but for now just try talking about it.

( I understand what you are going through as I have been attacked a few times before I told someone)

[Casey.]

What happened at New Years wasn't your fault, and you are not a slut. A lot of girls who were raped or sexually assaulted often turn to one night stands and sleeping around, because it has no meaning to them anymore; their hurting themselves so no one else can.That doesn't sound like your case though. You trusted him, and he broke that trust. Stop blaming yourself and stop letting him have that power over you. You know that it's not true, that you are not a slut, and just hold on to that knowledge.

You should seriously consider talking to someone. Talking can help and it can help to just let it out. Don't be afraid to reach out, either on here, or to a counselor or friend.

[musicslife]

Yeah, talk to someone. Know that it was not your fault. And you are so not a slut. Try talking to your best friend or someone close to you.