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Step-dad - June 15th 2010, 04:14 PM

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My step dad came to the house last night...he...attacked me.
I'm so scared. cant even type properly. just feel so alone


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Re: Step-dad - June 15th 2010, 07:47 PM

Tell your mom or someone you trust to put him away. If you need to talk, feel free to pm me. I'm here.


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Re: Step-dad - June 15th 2010, 09:06 PM

Hey Georgia,

I know we talked earlier, but I just wanted to tell you I'm here for you if you need anything. Please reach out for help and report your step-dad. What he did was wrong and he shouldn't be allowed to just walk away without any consequences.

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Re: Step-dad - June 16th 2010, 05:45 AM

Go get help, please.


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Re: Step-dad - June 16th 2010, 05:48 AM

You have to tell someone. Its unacceptable that your stepdad would do that.You should definetely call the cops. And I may have given you advice before, and you said you followed it. If you need emotional support, you should talk to a priest. You could always talk to me too, but Im only on at around 1 our time. thats probably about ten in the uk.
   
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Re: Step-dad - June 16th 2010, 09:01 AM

Thankyou...I cant report it because then my mum would find out and go ballistic!
I would talk to my Pastor at church but I don't really want people knowing because im ashamed...
I have told a couple of close friends. Thank you so much Emily, I will PM you.
Its a very complicated story but this man has abused me in the past...he doesn't live with us anymore..but he did for 5 years and abused me all the time. What he did on monday was like all the abuse i suffered as a child in one sitting. it was horrendous! xxxxx
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Re: Step-dad - June 16th 2010, 11:25 PM

Georgia-louise, this is not something you need to be ashamed of. What your step-dad did to you was wrong and not your fault at all! I really, really encourage you to tell someone. You don't deserve that kind of treatment.

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Re: Step-dad - June 17th 2010, 08:41 AM

Thank you

He is now sending abusive emails to my mum and we found out that he hit my brother a while back whilst he was on a contact with him. :@
I just hate the court system here, because of the fathers rights crap he can get away with it and they wont listen to us...we all warned them this would happen!!! :@ :@ :@

I cant help but be ashamed, becuase I feel like it shouldnt have happened, i shouldnt have let him. He may come round again this friday because he is ordering another contact to take place...so scared!!!!


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