Tricky Situation

kc_82 · **Tricky Situation -** January 12th 2011, 05:18 AM

I don't know whether or not this goes here or not. I started talking to this guy online, he is 15 years older then me. We talked all the time on the phone and I kinda liked him. Well we live quite a distance and he said he would only meet me as long as I would have sex with him. I am 18+ so that is not anything to be concerned with. I didn't like the idea, but I did want to meet him. Well we did our thing and he told me that he needed to tell me something. I knew he had gone to prison, but he had lied to me about it. Turns out he is a sex offender, was prosecuted for statatory rape. When he told me this I kinda freaked out inside and thought what the hell did I just do. Claims to have been tricked, but don't they all claim their innocent or the courts screwed them. I didn't trust my instincts and I knew I should have. I have not been able to tell anyone this because in some ways I feel ashamed. However, I have continued to sleep him. Am I sick, is there something wrong with me? Is it ok, even after all the feelings I felt with this?

FlyingTrue · **Re: Tricky Situation -** January 12th 2011, 03:25 PM

That is why they are charged in the first place, they manipulate and take advantage of people. You need to stop seeing him and go to the police. Do not feel ashamed, this type of thing can happen to anyone, in fact he is probably doing the same thing to others right now. He needs to be taken back off the streets.

Marguerite · **Re: Tricky Situation -** January 12th 2011, 04:30 PM

You don't need to be ashamed. Honestly though, I'd advise against seeing him again.

Come on. He's actively persuing someone 15 years his junior and he was 'tricked' into having sex with an underage girl?

Obviously he has a thing for young girls. You're an adult and you can make your own decisions. But ask yourself this: If you were ten years older, would he even be interested in you?

x_sepi_x · **Re: Tricky Situation -** January 13th 2011, 06:38 PM

Don't be ashamed hun, you weren't to know. Thats what these kinda vile people are good at, manipulating others and getting what they want. I think you should tell the police about this coz he could easily be doing this to other people. if he is on the sex offenders register its even worse. you should tell someone.

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FlyingTrue Offline TeenHelp Sponsor I've been here a while ******** Age: 20 Gender: Male Location: United States (FL) Posts: 1,037 Join Date: March 31st 2010	Re: Tricky Situation - January 12th 2011, 03:25 PM That is why they are charged in the first place, they manipulate and take advantage of people. You need to stop seeing him and go to the police. Do not feel ashamed, this type of thing can happen to anyone, in fact he is probably doing the same thing to others right now. He needs to be taken back off the streets.

x_sepi_x Offline BrokenInside Experienced TeenHelper ****** Name: Sabah Age: 18 Gender: Female Location: UK Posts: 602 Join Date: May 1st 2010	Re: Tricky Situation - January 13th 2011, 06:38 PM Don't be ashamed hun, you weren't to know. Thats what these kinda vile people are good at, manipulating others and getting what they want. I think you should tell the police about this coz he could easily be doing this to other people. if he is on the sex offenders register its even worse. you should tell someone.

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