Female Advice Preferred: HELP-I'm scared and don't know what to do

[Speeddemonstar]

I am a special needs 14 year old girl, the guy I'm talking about is 40+.

Well this guy that my parents really trust/like, whenever I'm alone with him, (which, sence my parents really trust him, is quite often) he asks me if I want to have sex with him, and I tell him no, but he does it anyway.
I also don't want to tell my parents, because my dad has cancer, and is in liver failure, and I don't want to add any stress to him because at this point stress might kill my him. I also don't want to tell my mom, because she's extremely stressed already, because of my health and my dad's health.
I'm scared, confused, and just don't know what to do... what should I do?

[MusicMusicMusic]

Hi there, I'm very sorry this is happening to you. It is wrong in every way. You must tell your parents, and right away! It is unfortunate that your dad has health problems and I understand your concern for him. If you think this news really could be physically harmful to him, you should just tell your mother and let her decide if it wouldn't be in his best interest to know. Believe me, she would much rather know this and keep you safe in the future than be less stressed. If for some reason you can't tell your parents, you should tell another trusted adult such as a teacher at your school.
I hope everything turns out okay. PM me if you want to talk about anything.
Debbie xxx

[To Write Love On Her Arms]

You must tell your parents,before something gets out of hand. You should also talk to the police. I'm also sorry that this is happening to you. Hope Everything Gets Better.

[cantchillax]

Know that you aren't alone, and you didn't do anything wrong. It's not your fault he is acting this way. But also know, that you have to have help before it gets worse. If you don't think you can tell your parents you need to tell an adult that you trust, a counselor at school or a pastor, just someone who will listen and help. Good luck!

[marleymarl]

Im really sorry your having such a tough time at the moment. I understand this friend of the family puts you in difficult situations but what he is doing to you is not right in any way. I think your parents will understand if you tell them and they will make him stop and he wont be able to hurt you anymore. I understand your parents are really stressed out at the moment but you cant keep letting this happen to you and suffering in silence. Maybe just try and get your mum alone and tell her. Its going to be a very difficult thing to say it out loud to her but if you keep it to yourself, then he will keep abusing you. Have you got any older siblings? maybe they might be easier to talk to?
I really hope you get this off your chest soon, and obviously your family and friends will support you. Dont let this person control you, you are your own person!!

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