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i finally told someone - July 31st 2011, 05:49 PM

i went to hospital over a week ago because i had cut myself. people there asked me questions over and over. then came to my house. i finally told the lady who came by that i had been raped. and its the reason i hurt myself down there because i hated my body because of it. she said she knew but had to hear it from me. they got him. he still had my clothes that he kept. what he did caused me to hate myself and hurt myself.


my parents are not mad at me. not knowing scared me a lot. daddy is not really talking but he not yelling at me either. they said i should have told them. i wanted to. i really wanted to.

so yeah, thats all i guess. not sure how im feeling now. not sure why i even posted this. maybe hurting myself is over. maybe things at home will get better.
   
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Re: i finally told someone - July 31st 2011, 06:17 PM

Maddie, I am so, so proud of you for this. <3
you are incredibly strong, and I hope everything gets immensely better for you from this point.
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Re: i finally told someone - July 31st 2011, 08:53 PM

WOW! I LOVE YOU!!!! I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!!!
As Nikki said I hope it all works out and everything gets better for you.
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Re: i finally told someone - August 1st 2011, 12:25 AM

I am so proud of you for telling someone. You are so strong and I hope everything gets better for you as I know it will. Talking is hard but it is worth it in the long run.


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Re: i finally told someone - August 1st 2011, 12:41 AM

Maddie, i am SO proud of you for telling them! that is a GREAT step to take. your certianly on the right track and if you need anything at all, im here for you, kay? love you Maddie


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Re: i finally told someone - August 1st 2011, 01:03 AM

So proud of you! Things are going to be rough, but things are going to change, and for the better!!!



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Re: i finally told someone - August 1st 2011, 01:27 AM

I'm proud of you too, and I'm so glad that they caught him. I hope things get better, stay strong



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Re: i finally told someone - August 1st 2011, 09:08 PM

I'm so glad that you finally decided to tell someone! I'm so proud of you.
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Re: i finally told someone - August 2nd 2011, 09:08 AM

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Re: i finally told someone - August 3rd 2011, 06:14 PM

maddie-pie, to say i am proud of you is an understatement. im way more than proud of you. Your did the correct thing and you deserve a better life than what you have been having. you deserve happiness. if you ever want to talk to anyone. just message me. im always on. like dezy except im on 24/7


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Re: i finally told someone - August 3rd 2011, 11:35 PM

maddie im so proud of you for telling someone. takes alot of courage to do so. stay strong! PM if you need to talk.
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Re: i finally told someone - August 6th 2011, 02:03 AM

Things are going to get so much better now sweetheart. <3
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Re: i finally told someone - August 6th 2011, 05:35 AM

I don't know you, but I'm still super proud of you for telling someone. I know that must have taken a lot of courage! Thank the Lord that they caught the monster that hurt you. Things are going to get so much better for you! Stay strong Maddie!



   
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Re: i finally told someone - August 6th 2011, 11:57 AM

Maddie, that is so great you did that!!! I know how difficult it is but you did it. Its the first step in healing. I am proud of you
   
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Re: i finally told someone - August 6th 2011, 02:22 PM

Maddie,

I'm glad you told somebody about what happened, it takes a lot of courage and I am proud of you for doing so. Things will get better.

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Re: i finally told someone - August 9th 2011, 05:45 PM

im sorry for not responding sooner. please forgive me. i hope you understand. it has taken some time trying to deal with everything. and will take longer i guess. i saw doctors yesterday and ending up spending the night with a support group. i cried for hours but i ended up being good for me. im really tired so probably want be on much today but i wanted and needed to say thank you for supporting me.
   
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Re: i finally told someone - August 9th 2011, 07:55 PM

You don't need to apologize at all. You were getting better and crying all this out so that's what's important. Take your time, continue to talk it out, and of course we all have your back and are here to support you. Take care!


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Re: i finally told someone - August 10th 2011, 01:30 AM

thank you Erik. that really helped. i needed to hear that. thank you.
   
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