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Unhappy Death Threats - October 15th 2019, 08:17 PM

Hello, not quite sure where to put this thread.
As far as I'm aware the people involve with this situation don't use this site, I hope they don't.

This is more of a rant, but it's severely affected my mental health.

So, it all starts about a month ago.
My close male friend started a fuck-buddy relationship with some he had just met. We will call them Fred and Bilbo.

So, my closest friend, Grumpy, and I attempted to warn Fred how fast everything was going. Unfortunately he was dead set on sex, despite our best advice.
So they dated for a week, cut it off cause Owelet decided they didnt like that their friend Bilbo was dating Fred.
Bilbo wanted to fix everything by talking.
Owelet tells Bilbo that Grumpy and I said his art was bad and that we thought he was gonna abuse Fred.

Then Bilbo decided to send threats, which were relayed through Fred who was worried about the whole thing.

We contacted the appropriate people, but Fred began to back pedal fast as he didnt want to fuck up Bilbos life.

I feel betrayed and can't trust anyone anymore

TLDR:
Friends fuck-buddy sends me and my closest friend death threats. Friend chose sex over friendship. I feel betrayed and hurt.

Anyway, this is has severely affected my anxiety. I cant be in the same room as Bilbo without breaking down and Fred cant seem to understand how serious the situation is.

If anyone involved is reading this, please leave me alone. I'm not interesting in fixing things at this point. Consequences will play out, there's no avoiding that now.
   
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Re: Death Threats - October 16th 2019, 05:12 PM

Sorry to hear you and a close friend have been receiving death threats. It's understandable you would feel betrayed when a friend chose sex over friendship and the whole situation has blown up to the point of you and a friend receiving death threats. It also makes sense that this situation would've triggered your anxiety too.

Since Bilbo was the one who sent the death threats then it's natural you would feel you can't be in the same room as him without breaking down. As upsetting as it is for you, it may help to stay away from Bilbo while you process your feelings and what happened (more so if you have contacted appropriate people and they might want you to stay away from him). When things have calmed down for you all, and you and Bilbo (and everyone else involved) feel comfortable, you can try to talk about things and repair friendships. As sad as it is that you feel you no longer can trust people, it can help to remain slightly guarded when talking about the situation. There seems to be quite a few people with different motives in this situation and can be difficult to untangle everything.

I takes time to build up trust and lessen the feelings of anxiety. As you say, consequences will play out and it's uncertain how things may turn out. But for now, focus on yourself. Cry if you feel like it, write your feelings down, get angry and punch a pillow etc. It's okay to feel hurt and betrayed over this.


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