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Can't get over someone being nice to me? - December 2nd 2009, 11:49 PM

Well this one girl who is freinds with a girl who I like told me to go talk to her twice (i'm shy). Well I can't stop thinking about that. Also this girl who i "like" I got obsesed about because she said hi alot to me, but we didn't know each other much. I'm not treated very nice to often, sorta shuned. Is this thing normal? (not the shunning) There a name for it? Also how can i get over this? Thanks. Just post if it's not very specfic. Sorta outa time to post....(gtg)


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Re: Can't get over someone being nice to me? - December 4th 2009, 05:55 PM

Hi Kyle,
I don't really think that there is a diagnosis for that, it sounds more like an issue with you having low self-esteem. People with low self-esteem often have trouble receiving compliments, and people being nice to them. Some people feel that they don't deserve it, but just know that you do deserve it. I think that being "obsessed" with the girl, and also the low self-esteem issue could be helped by seeing a counselor. I know it's not easy, and it is scary not knowing what is going on with yourself, but I have faith in you and I know you can get through this. I'm not a doctor, I cannot diagnos anything so if you still want to know more I would say to ask your doctor. If you ever need anything feel free to PM me at any time.


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Re: Can't get over someone being nice to me? - December 7th 2009, 09:31 PM

Thanks, your words are quite comforting and show a certaininty to them. I'm sure that your quite the good live help operator. Though I can't see myself having low self esteem. Before I used to, but I feel that It's grown highly and I've been able to accept myself. Sure I'm dissatisfied with some things about me, but I don't think it's due to low self esteem. Thanks for your time. Maybe it is....Idk.


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