i dont know why i feel this way

[pursuit-of-happiness]

so i worry about pretty much everything when it comes to my peers and relationships. i am a people pleaser and i want everyone to like me and if they dont it bothers me a little too much. i know that in life not everyone is going to like you but sometimes i feel like no one likes me and i worry what they say behind my back. this is brought on by feeling like no one writes on my facebook wall or how no one really talks to me in my sorority without my attempts to talk to them first. Why do i worry so much about my friends and how do i get over this. it is making me really unhappy and i dont want to worry my life away while im young.

[alibear101]

Hey, I totally get what you are going through! I am also trying to overcome all of this. Basically what you have got to do is not give a damn about what people think of you. it seemed that when i adopted this attitude a lot more people liked me because they didn't have to worry about hurting my feelings or anything. I also just learned to brush things off. I find it a lot easier to deal if I just pretend not to care. Then I come here and poor my emotions out. message me