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I'm hiding food secretly in my room. - March 3rd 2017, 02:56 AM

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I have been hiding food secretly in my room and my parents and sister do not know that I will do this. My sister has been calling me fat for over three years and my parents yell at her and say that it's not true, and some days I think I am and I think that is why I am hiding it and I don't know what to do about this. I'm at a loss.
   
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Re: I'm hiding food secretly in my room. - March 3rd 2017, 05:38 AM

I sure she is just saying that to wind your up my siblings are always coming out with things
   
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Re: I'm hiding food secretly in my room. - March 4th 2017, 01:26 PM

Ok. I'm not sure what to do about this. I don't know how to stop hiding food in my room when my sister is being mean to me and I get upset. Does anyone know what to do?
   
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Re: I'm hiding food secretly in my room. - March 4th 2017, 05:06 PM

I am so sorry that your sister speaks to you in that way. Unlike Daniel, I don't think you should just ignore your sister because she's just "trying to wind you up". Even if that's true, its unacceptable and it's hurting you and causing you to change your behaviours to compensate. In a perfect world she should have to change her behaviours and not be a catty bitch, no matter the reason (whether she's just being mean to be mean, she actually thinks your fat, etc). It is NOT ok for her to do that.

However, the world isn't perfect and you can't make your sister do anything. You can, however, calmly and rationally tell her to stop and hope she'll listen. You can tell your parents that the way your sister treats you is hurting you in X or Y ways and that you need help because she wont stop and the behaviours is harming your mental health - you can ask them to support you in whatever ways you feel best, like getting a therapist to deal with the abuse from your sister and the outcomes from it (being at risk of an eating disorder) and stuff, you can ask them to foster a healthy environment where healthy food (and some unhealthy) is celebrated. Having constructive support from your parents will be great. And maybe your sister needs help to - there is no reason for her to be that mean, so maybe something is going on that she also needs therapy for.

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Re: I'm hiding food secretly in my room. - March 4th 2017, 05:41 PM

I have to agree with always I didn't really take in the fact that it is having such an effect on your mental health
   
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Re: I'm hiding food secretly in my room. - March 4th 2017, 06:02 PM

Ok. Thank you for your help with this. I will try to talk to my parents later when they come home from work.
   
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Re: I'm hiding food secretly in my room. - March 5th 2017, 08:33 AM

I hope that helps london
   
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Re: I'm hiding food secretly in my room. - March 5th 2017, 01:46 PM

I didn't get a chance to talk to my parents about this because my sister took the family vehicle that we have had for five months and my sister has only had her license for two months. My parents were so mad when they came home from work and I couldn't tell them how she is mean to me and I am hiding the food without them knowing in my room. Now I am going to have to find another day to tell them. Because they were taking care of the problem of the car with my sister. My sister has been mean to me for this long and I shouldn't be hiding the food, I cannot stop hiding it, but I cannot tell my parents when they are upset like this.
   
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