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hi - December 31st 2012, 01:01 AM

how do I tell m boyfriend I have a tumor?


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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 03:04 AM

just be like hey honey i need to talk to you it's nothing bad i just got to tell you something.... And then be like I have a tumor...
   
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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 03:10 AM

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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 03:10 AM

I'm so sorry to hear that you are dealing with this!
It's tough to give difficult news. I think you should ask to talk to him privately about something, and then tell him when you two are alone. If you have good news about this, you might want to tell him that part first. Then...just tell him. Don't hold anything back.
Don't worry too much about how he will react. And don't worry if he doesn't seem to have much of a reaction at first - sometimes it takes a while (even a week or two or more) for news to sink in.
Good luck, and I hope everything goes well for you!







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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 04:08 AM

Is it benign or malignant? I'd be shocked to hear malignant, especially at such a young age.



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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 04:16 AM

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I'm so sorry to hear that you are dealing with this!
It's tough to give difficult news. I think you should ask to talk to him privately about something, and then tell him when you two are alone. If you have good news about this, you might want to tell him that part first. Then...just tell him. Don't hold anything back.
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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 04:17 AM

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Is it benign or malignant? I'd be shocked to hear malignant, especially at such a young age.
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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 04:55 AM

jen u will b ok ur in my prayers love u girl
   
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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 04:59 AM

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thanks and I hope so only have 2 months


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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 05:04 AM

be strong and thank God for life and alll that
   
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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 05:08 AM

Well here is the thing, a benign tumor doesn't kill anyone!!! I don't know why you think you have 2 months to live??




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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 05:15 AM

Benign tumours are pretty much dead. if it were MALIGNANT on the other hand, THEN you would possibly have 4-5 months, not 2. How did your symptoms start out anyway? Have you had fluid removed from your spine?

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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 10:48 AM

im feeling eh thy sent me home I do do chemo though


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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 10:49 AM

plus instead of needles since I cant stand the needles they put me on a pill


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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 10:50 AM

How do you do it babe? What did you tell me again?

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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 10:52 AM

I was able to come home because it wasn't tht big of tomor


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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 10:59 AM

how did you have the chemo babe? How long did it take to have an effect?

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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 11:07 AM

You told me you have chemo in pill form, correct? I think everybody wants to know what happened.

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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 11:12 AM

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Re: hi - December 31st 2012, 12:26 PM

Jen be strong i no that you will get better
   
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