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I need advise please. - October 4th 2010, 07:08 AM

Hey, I have had an abortion recently, and that afternoon ended up falling off a deck with my boyfriend (Alcohol was involved, I wasn't drinking, although I have to admit after I tried to and it did help the pain because I blacked out and forgot about it for a while) on to concrete (About a meter high), and landed in a funny way, and ended up getting a knee in the tummy. I am aware there will be some bleeding and pain, but both of which were nearly gone before this. I have started bleeding more and also the pain in a lot worse. The pills they gave me aren't working, and I have tried everything from Marijuana to a hot water bottle and peppermint tea, literally. The stronger pain relief pills such as tramadol, morphine and codine ones take the edge off, but nothing seems to make it comfortable. I'm also feeling really uber sick, and the pills I have been given for that don't help. I'm not sleeping because I just keep getting woken up from the pain, I'm not eating because I cant keep anything down. I cant afford a visit to the doctors, and I don't want to go back into hospital because they just give me pills and send me home again. I don't know what to do, and need your help please.

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Re: I need advise please. - October 4th 2010, 08:14 AM

Just to make sure I'm understand this correctly you had an Official abortion performed by a doctor correct?

Also did you see a doctor for the deck incident in particular or are the pills you have from the abortion?

The reason why i ask is because if you fell the same day you had an abortion, you may have caused some other injury. This injury might be overlooked if it was misconstrued as after effects from your abortion. If you're missing sleep and meals you really need to figure out what is causing it. If you can, call the doctor that performed the abortion and ask if the pain should be that bad they might not charge you for the phone call. They should be able to direct you further from there.

I hope you can figure out what's wrong and feel better soon.


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Re: I need advise please. - October 5th 2010, 11:02 PM

hey, you really should get checked out. the bleeding and pain could be after affects of the abortion or it could be some form of internal bleeding caused by the fall. you wouldn't be able to tell the difference because of how closely timed together that they happened. be careful.

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Re: I need advise please. - October 6th 2010, 04:31 AM

Hey, The pills were from the abortion, and yes, it was done by a surgeon at the local hospital. My boyfriend is insisting I head back up to the hospital, but I will need to wait until this weekend as I have a radio show for course I cant miss. I have called them and they said the same thing, and also if it gets worse before I can head in I will need to organize something with my tutor for my because like you say, it could be internal bleeding and I wouldn't know. They say the eating and sleeping could be caused by pain, I could believe that, and I need to drink a lot of water, and try eat small meals throughout the day, even if it is some toast, etc until things are sorted out, hopefully it wont be too much of an issue..

I am worried about it because it shouldn't be causing this much pain.

I hope I find out what is wrong soon also, and thank you.
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Re: I need advise please. - October 6th 2010, 02:44 PM

There's no way we or you can self diagnose what's wrong with you. It sounds like you've caused yourself some more pain and injury, and you really should see a doctor sooner rather than later. Tell them all the details and they should help you.

Take care and feel better.

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Re: I need advise please. - October 6th 2010, 05:12 PM

Hey there,

I'm a strong supporter that you get yourself to either the hospital or your doctors as soon as you possibly can. It doesn't sound pleasant that you're going through all of this, and they're the only ones who can help you!

Let us know how it goes. (:
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