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Should I come out to my girlfriend? - January 9th 2012, 08:22 PM

Im not sure if i should tell my girlfriend that im a girl inside. If i tell her, i'll most likely lose her, and im not sure how i feel about that. And if i tell her and it turns out im not going to get "the change" then i lost her for nothing. But if i dont tell her then i'll feel like im lying to her. Plus, if i tell her and then decide i do want "the change" then it just seems wrong to string her along like that. Advice?
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Re: Should I come out to my girlfriend? - January 9th 2012, 08:41 PM

I am sorry to say that it is only you that knows when or if to tell your girlfriend. If you feel ready and that it would be the best thing to do then yes tell your girlfriend. If your having any doubts then no don't come out to her.

I am here for you to offer guidance, but as I have said only you know if you are ready. X


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"For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control." 2 Timothy 1:7

"Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect." Romans 12:2

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Re: Should I come out to my girlfriend? - January 10th 2012, 03:41 AM

I think you should be honest with her, since the number one rule in a relationship of any kind is truth and honesty.


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