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Her - August 26th 2012, 01:43 AM

I made a previous post, about the person I call Sally....

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I went to camp and had a great time. As I said before, I obviously don't fit the image of Sally's "perfect bff" and though I try a lot to avoid and stop being friends with her, she. JUST. WON'T. LEAVE. ME. ALONE.
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Obviously, her perfect BFF has to be pretty and have a boyfriend-- but not too good a bf or too good a couple. She really wanted me to go out with my closest guy friend, however I'm not interested in dating anyone right now. To her, this isn't acceptable.
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While I was at camp, she did her best impersonation of my voice, blocked her number, called that guy friend, claimed to be me with a cold-- he believed it. She asked him to go out with me. He accepted graciously, I hear....
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I told him the truth, and also about dating, but he seems really upset right now. I think he'll get better soon, but I still can't believe she did that. We both figured out it was her. After all I have heard her impression of me-- it is pretty close to me.....
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I can't take what she is pulling anymore. My guy friend will be fine, but it's her.
If I call her out on it, she will go out to the world, exaggerate and lie about me and like before, I become hated. (Has happened......)
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What do I do?!?!
   
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Re: Her - August 26th 2012, 06:30 PM

Wait...okay, so she is obsessed with this perceived ideal of what your life should be like to the point that she actually faked your voice and basically stood him up? I must say, I've heard some bizarre things between "friends" but this pretty much trumps it all.

I read your other thread about her, and basically she sounds controlling, obsessive, incredibly shallow, and just plain nuts. She doesn't seem like a "friend" so much as a parasite who uses you and throws tantrums when she doesn't get her way. I think you need to sacrifice your reputation and just run away from her as fast as you can, literally and figuratively. Ceasing all contact with her and just staying far away would be the best way to go. If her reaction is negative to the point where she's overtly harassing you, you might consider talking to a counselor at school or even the school administration and report her behaviour to them. This Sally chick needs to be put in her place.


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