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What Can I Say - October 8th 2012, 10:25 PM

How do I tell my old best friend I donít want to be as close to her as I am.
She used to be my best friend and we were really close but recently we have been having issues some mine and some her.

The fact is if she loses me as a fine then she has pretty much no one apart from her boyfriend. Things have happened and Iím so pissed of with her that I just donít want to talk to her or even been around her. Iím done with her and her pettiness and I donít want to be involved in petty disagreements but I keep getting dragged in to them.

Sheís been a big part of my life but I think that part she played is overÖ

Any advice would be helpful.

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Re: What Can I Say - October 9th 2012, 12:27 AM

Since I don't know the whole situation, it's hard to say what you should do. Plus, you need to be the one that decides. Will you be happy not being as close? Is there a way to resolve this without basically ending your friendship?

If you are happier without her, if she is bringing you down, and you've already talked to her about the problems and there isn't a solution, then talk to her. Explain to her that you guys must be going in different directions right now since you are incapable of getting along. Tell her that while you may not hang out as much, you can still be friends and if she needs you, you'll be there for her. (You don't want her to have no one besides her boyfriend, right?)

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