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MY DUMBO MUM AND BROTHER - October 21st 2012, 06:00 PM

My mum a horrible bitch to me.
She has always had moody issues with me from day one.
Yesterday night she made me upset.
This morning I went out to town with her because I thought she would like a
mate to go with her so I went with her to suite her at first it was going ok between us
but....now she's acting very mean to me.
my mum brought clothes for herself and I said ''you did well'' and she thinks my tone of voice was moody so she thinks I was jealous of her buying something for herself
but I wasn't. She has ago at me and when I ask if she was ok
her tone of voice was really angry and she said ''YEP FINE I'm in a good mood
Then I started to fall out with her as times go by

When I came back from town she blackmails me saying ''you don't want your hair color to be done then' she tucks her lip in like she enjoys blackmailing me and trying to get me to think i'm the bad guy in all of this.
She' She's been having arguments with me now a days well it's almost everyday now that ain't normal or healthy. I hate her I dislike her now. I use to be close to her and understanding. I've been a mug and a doormat for her to admit I am always in the wrong and she's the saint.




The next day...I'm hungry and my dad is cooking dinner
my dad was eating and i was confused i said
why are you eating i'm hungry?
He said my dinner will only be 10 mins
so I said ok it's where it past 2 lines
and my brother makes me upset saying stop frowning
it's not like your starving like africa children my mother said the exact same thing to me
I got annoyed. He thinks i'm always moody about it but I wasn't I was calm I was annoyed at first that my dad was eating but I was calm when he said 10 mins. He then acts and talks like my mum saying things like The kids, teachers think your moody because you don't smile.


I FEEL LIKE FUCKING PUNCHING THAT CUNT.

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Re: MY DUMBO MUM AND BROTHER - October 21st 2012, 06:20 PM

Well regarding your mom, maybe shes going through alot of things that you are unaware of? I'm not defending her, I'm just saying that maybe she has a reason to be exploded (unfortunately its on you: which isn't a right thing to do). I think your best bet is to talk to her when shes in a good mood. Communicate with her and tell her you feel that you guys were really close, and now you guys aren't as close and you want to change that. You want a good relationship with her. If after communicating with her nothing changes, your best bet is to keep your distance from her for a bit. Hopefully things will go by; if not, then maybe it'd be time to seek help for your mom. But try communicating first. See where that gets you (you may be shocked with the outcome).

As far as your brother, they will always mess with you. I'm sure half the time he is just trying to get you to start yelling or get upset: thats what brothers do. I've done the same thing to my sister aswell. I'm not taking his side, and Ive been on both ends of this situation (and your end sucks), but I feel likes thats how most people have dealt with growing up; so I wouldn't worry about it as much, and I defiantly wouldn't let it get to you (because then he will continue to do it even more).

The teen years (mainly the 13-17) are full of negative, and positive things. We usually fight with our parents, and siblings. We get introduced to sex, drugs, and alcohol. We get slammed by school, homework, sports, relationships, drama, and peer pressure. We try to run away from home, or rebel against family and/or friends. We get into verbal, and physical fights: but in the end, it makes you who you are. Believe it or not, these valuable years will shape you as a person. Sure, you should and will still get upset at times, and sure hearing this doesn't help you much, but once you start to hit the 17, 18 and 19 year stage you'll understand what I'm talking about. Stay strong, live your life to the fullest, and don't be afraid to let the world see your smile



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