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Unhappy Losing my best friend day by day - October 29th 2012, 03:49 AM

My friend has been down since quite a few weeks. I tried to talk to her but she wouldn't tell me the reason and just said that it's something about Sam (her crush). I didn't force her. I just said that whenever she is ready to talk, I'm ready to listen.
But she is not even receiving my calls or replying to my texts. Worst part: She is talking to EVERYONE ELSE but me. When I asked her about it, she just went, "No I'm not talking to anybody. I cut your call cuz I knew you'd ask for an explanation. I'm busy now. Bye."
I tell her everything and she is (or was?) my best friend! Then why is she behaving like this with me?? I'm not even worth an explanation, huh?
It's her birthday on 31st and I spent all my time making her a birthday present but I'm not even sure whether I'd give that to her or not. Some of my friends think I'm quite obsessed about my best friend. I'm not!
I just want my best friend back. She was the only one who supported me through everything and now, she's drifting away too.


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Re: Losing my best friend day by day - October 29th 2012, 06:55 PM

Well I think that time/space is needed. If she is in fact just ignoring you, and no one else, the last thing you want to do is force her or push her to give you a whole story. Take a few steps back, don't text/call her for a few days, and then try to call her again. I think that maybe you SHOULD give her that gift, because that may help things. However if nothing changes, and she keeps ignoring your calls/texts after 7-10 more days, then you should comfront her about it and tell her that you feel its just you shes ignoring and you want the friendship to stay strong and not fail. If she doesn't respond back, or responds negatively after your comfront her, then there really isn't much you can do at that point but move on.



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Re: Losing my best friend day by day - October 31st 2012, 04:39 PM

I guess I'd try. I just go all hyper and panicky when people ignore me.


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Re: Losing my best friend day by day - October 31st 2012, 08:06 PM

Which is understandable; however there will always be situations you come across when people ignore you, and there isn't much you can do but try to make things work. And if in the end things don't work, you can alteast walk away knowing that you put more than enough effort into the friendship/relationship and trying to get things to work. You can't make things work or be successful, but you can (and should) atleast try. Whatever happens after that is out of your hands.


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Re: Losing my best friend day by day - November 1st 2012, 10:03 AM

You're right. I'll just try my best and give her some time.
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