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Desicion ,nervous , move with father or stay ! Storm opinion - November 5th 2012, 05:57 PM

Quick and short. I have been living with my mom a few years now , we have been having problems
And that's not the point my dad offer me to go an live with him for the months left of school to graduate

At some point I look at it ,a new start new friends , no more problems spending time with my family especially my brother things I don't want to miss out on
On the other side am scared its a big step leaving my mom and sister I hv been living with them for so long

I think am scared of taking that step than looking at the positive side

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Re: Desicion ,nervous , move with father or stay ! Storm opinion - November 6th 2012, 03:30 AM

Ultimately it's your decision, and you shouldn't feel guilty about making the healthiest choices for yourself.
I don't know what year you're in as far as school, or what that might mean for your transcripts, so I would suggest a chat with a counselor about how a transfer might affect college. It probably shouldn't, but I know that at my school, classes were year-round and only a few electives could be completed in half the school year, which meant that transferring to a different school (or to my school) halfway through the year would have presented a few challenges.

It definitely is a big step to take, but they're your feet and you can definitely get through it. And if you don't feel that you're ready to make the decision or if school turns out to be an issue, you could always see about moving in with your dad for the summer/ after graduation.

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Re: Desicion ,nervous , move with father or stay ! Storm opinion - November 6th 2012, 09:37 PM

I agree with the post above. I think your best bet is to really sit down and think about this. Make a list of pros and cons to moving and to staying where you are. The one major thing you really need to think about is: which household offers a healthier and safer environment for me? This is the main focus. And if you say that its your Dad's house, then sure it will be tough to leave your mom and sister, but in the end you need to do whats right for you. Remember, we all go down different paths in life, and we cant always do things to please others. We have to look out for ourselves, and what is in our best interest.

So think about it. Weigh the pros and cons of the situation. And keep in mind the main question you need to answer: Which household offers a healthier and safer environment for me?


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