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Friends :/ - June 15th 2013, 10:27 PM

I graduate in less then two weeks. In the last couple months, I have noticed that the people I call my friends... Don't act like my friends, friends do things together, they have fun. My friends do things together, I am always left out of everything, and the only time they do invite me is when I am around and they feel like they need too, because I heard them talking about doing something.

I feel like they do not really want to be my friends, the only time we do see each other is in class, or when I invite them to the house, which is never because they always say they cant.
I feel left out, I feel alone, and that I have no friends. I lost my best friend back in march, and now the only two I had left hardly even speak to me unless they need something.

I don't know what to do.
   
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Re: Friends :/ - June 16th 2013, 02:39 PM

I experienced the same thing when I was in and left school. During school only time I had friends was during Indoor Track season and they only seem to be friendly with me was during practice. It hurt but I realized that they really weren't my "true friends", seems like this is the case with you as well. I'm sorry that you're going through this and hopefully they'll come around and realize what they're missing out.
   
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Re: Friends :/ - June 16th 2013, 06:53 PM

I had similar problems also, for me it happened all through high school though, people would just leave me out, even worse they'd sit around and talk about shit they did that I clearly wasn't invited too. I would go from group to group to group. 1 group acted like I wasn't there half the time (but they were all on drugs so I think part of that was that they were to high to notice), another group just knew not to invite me to things cause all they did was party where there was drugs and that I wasn't into that but they had the decency not to flaunt it and include me in things that I WAS going to do, another group was just a bunch of stuck up people... There are 2-3 more groups... It was nauseating always being the one of the fringes, it sucked. And I couldn't change who I was just to make people want to make me more centre of attention when I didn't know what it was that i was doing wrong to be excluded and i refused to stoop down to changing who I was to please people because then they wouldn't be liking ME any more, just the me I'd changed into to make them like me.... And realistically I don't really think it was my fault, I have friends, and had plenty of friends in high school, I just don't try getting into the centre of attention, I'm outgoing but I'm introverted, and I didn't really like partying and nor did I drink etc.

I now only talk regularly to about 4-5 friends who I went to high school with. That's far less then 1/4 of the people I would have considered my friends (as in people who were more then the friend-aquaintances in the same group). It's not uncommon for you to just sort of drift away from people, graduating can really prove who your real friends are.




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Re: Friends :/ - June 16th 2013, 10:00 PM

Which apparently are none at all. Those were the only two I had
   
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