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Angry Don't know how much longer I can cope... - July 16th 2013, 10:51 AM

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I really am so fed up right now. Not a day goes by anymore where my friends or family have something nasty to say about me."Your putting on loads of weight" "You need to wear makeup because you aren't beautiful" "You need to lose weight" "You need to go on a diet" "You need your hair dying" These are just some of things that get thrown at me every day. When I am at home its my mother who says it the most but now even my dad has started. People have even started calling me useless. I just want to have a better life but my family and friends are just putting me down all the time.
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Re: Don't know how much longer I can cope... - July 16th 2013, 05:55 PM

That sounds really hard for you :hugs: Maybe its time to either find new friends or sit down and talk things through with them, after all it may just be a joke gone to far. I would suggest talking to your parents as well, as it will be beneficial for you and it will also give you more support from them. You could also talk to a trusted family member or friend about whats going on, which will give you loads more support






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Re: Don't know how much longer I can cope... - July 16th 2013, 07:45 PM

Aw I'm sorry you are having to face this
Have you ever tried telling your friends and family that their comments are hurting you? You could confront them about it and tell them how you feel. You could also try ignoring them? I know it's hard to ignore people who are saying things like that, but hey, are they really worth your time to listen to? I agree with Jenny that you maybe could start finding new friends or talk to a really good friend about this. Well I hope this helps!


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Re: Don't know how much longer I can cope... - July 16th 2013, 09:21 PM

Thanks guys
I spoke to a friend...we have only known each other a few weeks but he was really understanding and he told me to try and ignore their nasty comments.
He said he knows it isn't easy, he is a lot older than me so I think he is speaking from experience. Thanks again guys for the advice
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