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unsure - August 21st 2013, 08:43 PM

hi
im new to this website.
my parents argue a lot, and i dont no what to do. i have a perfectly good life and am treated very well.
but theres always my parents arguing.
what shall i do.
i dont want them to spilt up

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Re: unsure - August 21st 2013, 09:11 PM

Hi there, firstly welcome to the site I'm Jenny and its nice to meet you. Its good to hear that you have a good life and are treated well.

Sorry to hear your parents argue a lot, you could try talking to them about it. If you feel you don't feel like you could talk to them you could try telling them by writing a letter and leaving it somewhere you're parents will find it. Whats your relationship like with your parents?

I see your worried about your parents splitting up, have you talked to anyone about this? If not, then I would suggest doing so. You could always talk to another family member, relative, teacher, trusted adult or friend.

Hope this helps, take care.






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Re: unsure - August 23rd 2013, 12:07 AM

Welcome to TeenHelp, I'm Chris.

I just wanted to let you know that at one point my parents fought alot too. First off, what seems alot to us, might not actually be alot. And there is also alot of different types of arguing. Most relationships have successful arguments, in which they solve and issue, and in which research has proven to actually further deepen the relationship. However, some fight in a negative way that actually causing more problems then solves.

Them fighting is not because of you, or anything related to you. People fight. With or without kids. In a marriage, or not in a marriage. Everyone fights. However please understand that just because they fight, doesn't mean they are going to split up. If they do split up (which they may or may not do), then understand that you are not alone, because now adays, most marriages don't last.

My point: you can't stop them from fighting, and if they decide to get a divorce (which I'm not saying they are), you also can;t do anything to stop that. However, the only thing you can do - is let your voice be heard. Tell them that you don't like it when they fight, and it makes you upset. They may then realize that they need to change their communication pattern(s), and solve the issues that have been causing them to fight in the first place.



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