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Question Friend/Crush Problems - September 9th 2013, 10:32 PM

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OK so I am in the 8th grade and there is this really cute kid and I like him but he is NOT gay and I am OK with that but that is not why I am writing this my friend like him. And you may say well so what but I need your help to give me advice because just last week her ex boyfriend's Facebook got hacked and it said he was gay and I really liked this kid and I still do so I told my friend and she made me promise that I would NEVER date him because she still had fellings for this kid and I told her I wouldn't but then two (2) days later she told me she was going to try to get with the kid I like what should I do?!?!?!
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Re: Friend/Crush Problems - September 9th 2013, 10:42 PM

Hiya, Anthony, I see your dilemma, there is a simple Short solution to this.

If You don't want to go out with this Kid who isn't gay, then there is really no issue, and should forget about it.

IF you do want to go out with this Kid who isn't gay, then you MUST ask him Personally of his sexuality, or what his preferences are. (You or the Girl)

This is pretty much All of the advice i can offer, however whatever you decision may be, i wish you Good Luck.

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Re: Friend/Crush Problems - September 9th 2013, 11:54 PM

Well, you could always tell her you like him too and that if she expects you to not date him cause of how she feels then it's only fair if she doesn't date him either. Let her know it's a huge problem for you because you're really upset that she's doing the exact thing to you that she said not to do to her.

At the end of the day all you can do is let her know how you feel, do it calmly and honestly and hopefully she's willing to listen

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Re: Friend/Crush Problems - September 13th 2013, 04:31 AM

Well this sounds like basic teenage romance where friends fight for someone they like. It may seem like it's the end of the world not being with this kid; however it's not. Is it worth losing your friend to try to be with this guy? Is it worth all the drama by trying to intervene into this situation?

There will be plenty of other guys to be with. And who knows, maybe later down the line she gets rejected by this guy, and then you can try to talk to him. Be patient, and make a list of all the pros and cons of the situation and go from there.

Keep your head up, and keep pushing forward!

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