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Uhg.. Someone help me. - October 4th 2013, 10:03 PM

So, my stupid brother things "Oh, I can just go watch some porn" When we lived in Michigan my brother watched porn on my mother computer.. 'Lesbian Anime Porn'. Alright, my mom grounded him for like 9 months to a year. Then! He kept doing it when she wasn't there. When we finally moved to Indiana my brother STILL wasn't allowed on the computer. I one day fell asleep and he made an account on my computer and watched some porn.. Again, 'Lesbian Anime Porn'. My mother found out and grounded him again. (She did let him on a bit. She thought she could trust him). Since my room is blocked off from everyone.. (besides my moms room). Well, I opened the door to see him watching more porn! LIKE WTF..

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What I'm getting at is that he won't stop it. He keeps doing stupid things and the stress is GOING TO KILL MY MOTHER. :/

Someone please help? I don't know what to do. Should I tell her or not?



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Re: Uhg.. Someone help me. - October 4th 2013, 10:18 PM

Have you considered downloading some sort of program that'll block him from accessing such sites? That'll mean that he can't get onto these sites he keeps visiting to watch porn. I'd also try having a word with him and letting him know that it isn't okay to keep doing it after your mum has told him not to, especially if you think that it's going to make her ill in someway.
   
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Re: Uhg.. Someone help me. - October 4th 2013, 10:34 PM

IDK.. I'm just tired of it and he is just constantly;.. "I'm watching porn" to make my blood pressure rise. But yeah, if he continues and mom keeps getting made she might have a heart attack.



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Re: Uhg.. Someone help me. - October 5th 2013, 04:12 AM

Why don't you try telling him about exactly how stressful it is? You just need to scare him a bit so that he gets concerned about his mother too. Maybe he doesn't take it as seriously as it is.
Otherwise, if a time comes when you are sure that he knows the severity of what he's doing and causing and he's still not acting upon it, I suggest you block his access to the sites.


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Re: Uhg.. Someone help me. - October 5th 2013, 04:26 AM

Tried blocking, does it anyways.

No matter what you tell him, he watches porn. I'm just sick of it. Uhg, but I'll find away.



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Re: Uhg.. Someone help me. - October 5th 2013, 07:06 AM

At this age people are interested in all these things regardless. So its not something completely unexpected from him. But yes, everything should have a limit. If your mother is really stressed then be there for her.
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Re: Uhg.. Someone help me. - October 5th 2013, 06:08 PM

Watching porn isn't actually as unusual as you'd think. A lot of people do it. What I find creepy and awkward in this situation is that he is advertising it or at least not being very sneaky about it, if I knew my brother was watching porn I'd be so uncomfortable--he might, he might not, I just consider it in the realm of things I never want to know about. Especially because the kind of porn a person wants to watch tells towards some sexual preferences (ex. lesbian porn vs. gay porn vs. blow jobs vs. etc....) and no one needs to know about that.

My point here is that if he was going to watch porn I think he's going to do it, it's not a bad thing in my opinion, but he obviously needs to fucking stop advertising it cause that's just awkward and uncomfortable and I don't know why he's skipping that fact(even if it means he inevitably gets his own computer, that would be for the best)

However if it is really just not ok in you family one other thing you could do is make password protected accounts on all the computers, that way he can't even get as far as the internet cause the entire computer is password protected, and then obviusly you shouldn't leave computers turned on (although most laptops hibernate after a few minutes of inactivity and log out so there)

I think you could always tell him that you realize you can't stop him from watching porn buuuut that it makes you really uncomfortable and it's totally freaking out your mom so you'd appreciate it if at the very least he could have the good sense to hide it, delete the history and maybe just follow the family rules (ex. not using other peoples computers for it)




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