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My brother is weird - November 5th 2013, 11:25 AM

Hello, I'm 14 and my brother 16 and for some days, my brother is weird with me: he always pinch my hips and I think he stares sometimes at my butt. Is that normal ? What should I think ? and do ?
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Re: My brother is weird - November 5th 2013, 06:32 PM

Hi there Marie63 - Welcome to TeenHelp!

Well, this is a situation in which I have to guess or give many different reasons as to why he may be doing it. I can't give you a 100% correct reason as to why he's doing it, because I can't read his mind. However, I warn you that you shouldn't assume he is staring at your butt unless you have actually caught him (because it can lead to issues down the road).

The biggest (and most likely) reason I can see him doing this is because he is still at the young age (like you) in which you he is trying to understand the other sex (ie: females), and may not have alot of experience under his belt. He may just be exploring what a female is all about. Or, he may be trying to connect with you (ie: building a stronger relationship with you). There are a few other reasons he may be doing it, but I don't want to assume certain things at this point.

My advice is to carefully watch him. If he does anything that makes you uncomfortable; if you find that he is staring at your butt, and that be is becoming more 'physical' with you, then I would try to get someone involved (ie: parents, talk to a counselor, etc) before it escalates.


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Re: My brother is weird - November 5th 2013, 08:20 PM

What do you mean by "more physical" ?
   
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Re: My brother is weird - November 5th 2013, 09:07 PM

Hey there.

"More physical" can mean a few different things. For example, it can mean that he continually finds a reason to touch you (ie: hugs you more often that he use too, pinches you, rubs any part of your body, holds your hand, etc). Or more physical as in he touches a place on your body in which would be found to be abnormal/inappropriate for a brother to touch (ie: butt, vagina, boobs, etc).

If he becomes "more physical" with you (especially if it makes you uncomfortable), that's when you need to tell him to stop, and/or get a third party involved (IE: parents, counselor, trusted adult, etc).


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Re: My brother is weird - November 5th 2013, 09:57 PM

As I said, he often pinches my hips.
   
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Re: My brother is weird - November 5th 2013, 11:09 PM

Hey there Marie.

As I said, if that makes you uncomfortable (or anything else he does makes you feel uncomfortable) or if he continues to do it (ie: pinching) I would tell him to cease such actions; and/or bring the issue to the attention of a trusted adult.

I hope things get figured out soon.


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