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Angry Life woth dad - November 6th 2013, 03:30 AM

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Well, here it goes, i was born on august 1998 on the 15th i was a normal healthy child in my young ages, just moping around. But everything is difficult with my asshole of a dad. I have tourettes, which is a neurological disorder causing me to tic and twitch whenever, it cant be controlled. My dad thinks the opposite, everytime i tic he would make some remark and give me a your a freak face...it hurts so much on the inside, he would sigh deeply and say hopeless, for all i know thats the only thing hes ever done, be a bitch. My body has cramps and pains from tourettes, and hed just say your hopeless. I also have vocal tics, meaning i have to repeat something consistently we have a councillor buty parents still think its my attitude yesterday i had a vocal tic, my dad got up in my face and yelled shut the hell up! Its not the first time, he thinks im selfish and ignorant. Weve had so much conflict, i feel when he puta me down i get back up, and say something back. I respect my dad i do my chores get good grades, but hes an asshole. We"ve physcially fought and verbally fought more rhen i can remember, sometimes to the point i bruise myself and cry to feel better, he makes me want to cut, and i have. We would argue until a punch is thrown or he gets up in my face and spits, i want him to feel pain, i dont need an asshole in my life, everyday he goes ur hopeless never going anywhere, it makes me cry, ive cryed in my sleep. I want him to be gone, i want him to suffer, my life is so hard, ive cut bruised, burned myself ive suffered depression, i have tourettes and i jave anxiety. I want him to stop being a jerk, he kills me from the inside. I do fight back when we argue though, it has to be my mom to break us up


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Re: Life woth dad - November 6th 2013, 11:05 PM

Hey there. I'm really sorry to hear about what your home environment looks like. Your father is clearly verbally, and in some cases, physically abusing you. No one deserves such treatment, nor should you allow it. I wish I could give you tips/advice to you so that you can solve the issue without any help from a third party, but I just don't see that happening (because there isn't many options available to you with the severity of the abuse). Since what you have told me seems very extreme (in terms of abuse), I would most definitely seek help from a third party (since your mother doesn't seem to be stopping this abuse entirely).

A third party can come in many different forms; a trusted adult (outside of your family), a counselor/social worker (which can be found at every school), a teacher/principal, or a police officer/firefighter. All these people will be able to provide you with the support, and most importantly the resources/tools to solve this issue.

Please remember throughout everything that your main goal is to create a healthy and positive living environment and lifestyle; which clearly is not taking place in your current living conditions.


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Re: Life woth dad - November 7th 2013, 02:49 AM

Thank you chris, i"ll try my best maybe we can keep in touch?


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Re: Life woth dad - November 7th 2013, 02:59 AM

Hey there again!

We can most definitely keep in touch. If you ever have any updates on this situation, or need any further advice, you can always feel free to private message (PM) me!

I hope things work out for the better!


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