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I can't be bothered anymore. - November 23rd 2013, 11:37 PM

I feel really nasty for saying this but I can't really be bothered to hang out with my friends anymore. The only people I genuinely want to hang around with are my boyfriend and family. This isn't me being depressed or anything, I'm just happier on my own or with my boyfriend/family. I just can't be bothered with friends anymore

I'm doing Psychology AS on a Tuesday night with my sister in college. I would used to try and talk to more people and make new friends, now I can't be bothered. There's this girl who talks to the both of us and I do like her enough but I don't want to get any closer to her because I just can't be bothered to socialise with another person :')

I'm happy enough right now but I feel like I shouldn't feel this way.


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Re: I can't be bothered anymore. - November 24th 2013, 02:41 PM

If it makes you happy then that's fine. You don't have to be sociable all the time, especially if you don't want to be and in time, it might change and you could find yourself wanting to spend time with friends but as I said, as long as you're happy that's the main thing.
   
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Re: I can't be bothered anymore. - November 24th 2013, 03:25 PM

I still talk to my friends on Facebook and I text/phone them because I do like them but I can't be bothered to do anything with them :') Most of my friends like going to pubs/clubs and getting drunk too. I hate pubs/clubs and I don't even like alcohol anymore.


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Re: I can't be bothered anymore. - November 24th 2013, 08:23 PM

Hey there,

I see nothing wrong with how you're feeling, and where you're coming from. Sometimes we just get to busy, or don't have the motivation or need/want to hangout with some people.

The point is, if you're happy with where you're at in life right now, then keep doing what you need to do to maintain that happiness. The only thing I warn you about is try not to burn down any bridges. Meaning, don't cut your friends out of your life 100%, because sometimes things fall apart (ie: relationships) and we need a support system, and a health group of friends to help us get through the issue(s).

Keep doing what you're doing (ie: talking to them once in awhile), and live your life to the fullest (no one can blame you for doing that)!


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Re: I can't be bothered anymore. - November 24th 2013, 09:31 PM

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I still talk to my friends on Facebook and I text/phone them because I do like them but I can't be bothered to do anything with them :') Most of my friends like going to pubs/clubs and getting drunk too. I hate pubs/clubs and I don't even like alcohol anymore.
That's understandable, if your friends are doing things that you don't like then you shouldn't feel like you have to hang around with them and it's good that you're still keeping in contact so you aren't cutting them out completely. As said, as long as you're happy that's what matters.
   
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