Support Forums Today's Posts

Get Advice Connect with TeenHelp Resources
HelpLINK Facebook     Twitter     Tumblr     Instagram    Hotlines    Safety Zone    Alternatives

You are not registered or have not logged in

Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!)

As a guest on TeenHelp you are only able to use some of our site's features. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to:

  • Connect with thousands of teenagers worldwide by actively taking part in our Support Forums and Chat Room.
  • Find others with similar interests in our Social Groups.
  • Express yourself through our Blogs, Picture Albums and User Profiles.
  • And much much more!

Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now!

Friends and Family Everyone has disagreements, even best friends and family. If you need advice about a relationship, ask us here.

Closed Thread
Thread Tools Search this Thread Rate Thread
  (#1 (permalink)) Old
Katie Lydia Offline
Regular TeenHelper
Katie Lydia's Avatar
Name: Katie
Gender: Female
Location: glasgow, scotland.

Posts: 444
Join Date: February 15th 2009

Joining a new group of friends - January 31st 2014, 08:46 PM

This is embarrassing to write, especially as I'm turning 21, I have no friends, like nada, nothing, nobody wants to hang out with me at college but I'm recently working at a zoo and have became very friendly with the staff there and have been invited to two nights out, I'm currently only working one day a week and have such a good laugh there but they already have their established group of friends and I really want to be a part of it, I know it would take time but I want to be their friends so badly, we laugh, talk and get on so so well but I just feel worried that I'd just be on the outside of their group when I want to be a part of it.

I know this is embarrassing but don't judge, any ideas on how to get more closer to them?

I've known them about two months and have not had a problem with anyone

Razors pain you
Rivers are damp
Acid stains you
Drugs cause cramp
Guns aren't lawful
Nooses give
Gas smells awful
You might as well live.

♥ Family ♥ Animals ♥ Cats
  (#2 (permalink)) Old
taylalatbh. Offline
Outside, huh?
taylalatbh.'s Avatar
Name: Taylala
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Location: Wales, UK

Posts: 3,744
Join Date: July 6th 2009

Re: Joining a new group of friends - January 31st 2014, 08:54 PM

Firstly, I'm in the same boat as you. I don't really have any friends, the only people I spend time with is my boyfriend and his friends so I know how you feel. Unfortunately for me I don't get on with the people I work with so it doesn't look like I'm going to be making friends any time soon!

But anyway, I'm happy for you! I think the best advice I could give is to make sure you're not too 'full on' when you talk to them or try to spend time with them. It seems like they like you too and want to make you a part of their social group, but these things can take time. Just be yourself and keep being social with them. If they invite you out, go! If they chat to you outside of work, keep chatting. It's a process but I'm sure you'll get to where you want to be in the end.

Good luck!
  (#3 (permalink)) Old
Chris Offline
Outside, huh?
Chris's Avatar
Name: Chris
Age: 25
Gender: Male
Location: Illinios

Posts: 4,247
Blog Entries: 3
Join Date: November 28th 2011

Re: Joining a new group of friends - February 1st 2014, 10:02 PM

Hey there, Katie!

Well making friends is certainly harder than it seems. So don't feel bad if you're struggling with this aspect of your social life. In regards to your co-workers, I think you're already doing a great job. When you go to work, continue to have a smile on your face, start joking around with them, and even invite THEM out for a night (i.e., to go to the movies, dinner after work, etc). That will not only show them that you're willing to contribute to the group, but that you're willing to be apart of the group too!

On another note, I always think it's a good idea to continue building onto and creating new friendships. With that being said, start getting involved more at college. Join a sport, a club, a sorority, a group. Start volunteering around campus. Get involved. Once you begin to do that, you'll find that friendships will begin to come more naturally (and more often).

Keep trying, and I think the ultimate outcome will be a great one!

Best wishes,

I hope you know that you deserve it all. The best, the most honest, the most beautiful purest love in the world. Not only to be loved by others, but to be loved by yourself. To look in the mirror and think "Yes, I'm exactly who I want to be". To speak up and be proud of yourself. To be brave and open. You deserve the nicest and most caring people to walk into your life. You deserve it all, you know. The whole world...
Closed Thread


friends, group, joining

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Rate This Thread
Rate This Thread:

Posting Rules
You may post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

All material copyright 1998-2020, TeenHelp.
Terms | Legal | Privacy | Conduct | Complaints | Mobile

Powered by vBulletin®.
Copyright ©2000-2020, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search engine optimization by vBSEO.
Theme developed in association with vBStyles.