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Angry Why the f*** does this happen to me - February 23rd 2014, 04:50 AM

I'm done I am fucking done with every single one of them my dad has kicked every single person I've trusted out of my life for the past 6 years first it was my brother he and my dad started fighting years ago and my brother got fed up with his bullshit and left without any trace and I haven't had contact with him for 6 years and tonight my dads kicked my stepmom and her family that incloudes my two little brothers and they're grandparents out and I've had major issues with trusting people even today I still don't trust my parents enough to go to them for help with issues and my dad has taken the one person I trust In this family and kicked her out and told her to have no contact with me or my sisters ever this is the worst fucking night of my life Shes done a lot in helping me learn to trust people enough to talk to them about my problems she's part of the reason I'm able to do this somebody please help me I don't know what to do and when I'm this pissed off I have a tendancy to do things I regret

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re: Why the f*** does this happen to me - February 23rd 2014, 03:22 PM

Hey, Austin.

I'm really sorry to hear about your dad doing this. I've experienced living in a divided family unit, especially within the extended family, and it is quite hard. I understand the trust issues, for I, like you, even have issues trusting my parents now, for I fear the worst.

Seeing as it would be difficult to contact any of the people mentioned without you or them experiencing trouble, I'm afraid not much can be done about what has happened, at least in my eyes. I do think that you can continue to try and overcome your trust issues, keeping what that person told you in mind. It sounds like she did an awful lot for you in that, and you can definitely continue to work on it based on what you were taught by her. I found it useful to consider and weigh up the barriers blocking you from being more open. Do you fear being embarrassed or being taken advantage of? Or do you fear betrayal? Try to work on these fears, gradually, being a little more open with people and realising it won't always happen.

I hope things will turn out okay for you. Feel free to PM/VM anytime!

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