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I said I'd NEVER do this. (Long) - May 4th 2009, 04:29 AM

I got a girlfriend, she asked me out. We met online, I know normally bad, and we got to talking. We like each other and she asked me out, I was gonna do it, but I wanted to talk to her on the phone or face to face. Anyways, I'm happy. Like truly happy and I always say that when something good comes along, but then it gets messed up and yeah. Well, I also messed this up by thinking she liked someone else because she had something up on her myspace like, I wish you felt the same way, or something. Turns out, she doesn't.
Anyways, my best friend and me have been falling apart. I'm kind of sick of the routine we have. Every few weeks to a month, he'll call asking to hang out, I'll say yes, he'll say we gotta get him, we drive an hour to get him, drive an hour back to my place to hang for about three, then drive him to his friend's house. Not cool. It's not fair to me or my parents. I love him to death, but at the same time...I use to have major feelings towards him and I still do...so it's not fair to my girlfriend, but I'm not gonna break up with her because nothing will happen between me and him. Plus, I'm the happiest I've been in a long time. So, here's the deal, I always promised my best friend I'd never let a girlfriend/boyfriend get between us because we've both had it happen and it hurts. Here's the thing, my girlfriend doesn't like him and to be honest, I'm kind of sick of how things work. I can't be 100% happy with my girlfriend with me being his friend...plus I haven't even gotten to tell him I have a girlfriend. He wants to hang out Friday, but he asked me again because he forgot he asked me. He's always forgetting things when it comes to me his "best friend." and he's doing what my ex best friend did to me and putting everyone else before me and I'm sick of being last. Now, losing him is something a lot of people are afraid of. When I lost my ex best friend, I almost killed myself.
Anyways, the point of this is, I'm sick of how people treat me. My "best friends" are the ones who treat me like total crap and it's not fair to me. For me, it's walk away or stay and deal with it. I don't like telling people things in fear of hurting their feelings because I don't like it. I want to leave, but I don't want to do it at the same time. I went over the pros and cons and the cons won, but what do you guys think I should do?


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Re: I said I'd NEVER do this. (Long) - May 4th 2009, 05:35 AM

Hey Jessie. I think its time you start thinking about yourself and if you think you'd be happier just giving him up, I say go for it.


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And all you do is stand and cry.


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Re: I said I'd NEVER do this. (Long) - May 4th 2009, 08:28 AM

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Hey Jessie. I think its time you start thinking about yourself and if you think you'd be happier just giving him up, I say go for it.
I don't know, I mean, I love him to death, but the friendship is dying slowly and I'm sick of fighting for it when he's not. I mean, I left my other best friend and he finally realized what he did so badly and now he's trying for once.


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