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Back-stabbing friend? - January 13th 2009, 12:32 AM

My life is so fucked up. To tell you the truth, I'm not 19 or 20 or whatever age that I say I am. I'm a freshmen in high school. My "friend" who is mean to me is kinda manipulating my guy friend???? She makes him walk away from me. My guy friend I am in love with him. Anyway about her, she drags his arm and they both walk down the hall. She said to me, "Oh, Ryan and I were studying...He left just to let you know", and I was like, "Oh, okay"

When I went to the Homecoming Dance in October, Ryan's friend, Kaley was looking for him, and she was like, "Ryan's not the kind of guy who come to these things...You hear that, Stephanie?" and I felt like shit, so I left and never returned.
   
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Re: Back-stabbing friend? - January 15th 2009, 06:24 AM

to be absolutley honest with you ive learnt in the long run that people like this end up doing nothing with there life they go down bad paths and have nothing she isnt a friend if shes acting this way and dont think shell change because chances are that shell carry on this way, shes a class act bitch

you are obviously the better person seeing this upsets you.

my advice would be to ignore this girl and hang around with other friends

that boy you like will get sick of this backstabbing bitch and probly get intrested in you

but remember anyone treating you like crap isnt a friend at all!

remember to stay positive find some good friends and everything will come together!

added info! what the person below me said about "nerds geeks and weirdos" well i spent most of my lower school life not wanting to be part of groups like that and thinking there all weird cause the "popular" kids said they were, but now in upper school 6form i hang around with "unpopular" kids and im the happiest ive ever been its funny when "popular" kids make comments and how "unpopular" kids just have great comebacks they are the nicest people ive met to be honest more interested in hanging out and doing stuff rather than whats cool at the time


it will all work out well cause your a good person!


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Re: Back-stabbing friend? - January 15th 2009, 06:30 AM

I knew a lot of girls like that when I was in school, and god did I hate them.

The only advice I can give you is this; Separate yourself from them all. Get new friends that are more like you, or maybe, just hang with the unpopular kids. The nerds, geeks, freaks, and weirdos are usually the nicest, so you're better off with them anyway. ;D

Plus, as it was said before, the boy you like will eventually realize that he is being dragged around by his nostrils and become more aware of you, which will lead to a better friendship for you both...and maybe more. It just takes time, but I wish you luck, and don't worry about the mean girls--KARMA is a bitch. ^__^


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