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My Boyfriend is getting serious afer 2 days -
September 19th 2015, 06:12 PM
Okay so ive fancied a guy , T, for 2 years and it turns out he liked me back. But now we're going out. I am 13 he is 15 and he keeps talking about sex and kissing. It's moving to fast for me but idk what to do about it. He dosent want to tell anyone about us going out and i respect that but then he wants to sit at the back corner of the bus with me and hold my waist and hug and stuff. People will notice!!! I'm Not ready for this much so early.
Re: My Boyfriend is getting serious afer 2 days -
September 19th 2015, 06:27 PM
Hey there. I'm sorry your relationship is moving sort of fast. Have you considered telling him that you feel that he is moving too fast? He may not realize that you are uncomfortable with this. I'm sure that if you explain to him that you aren't ready for all the physical touching, he will comply and back down a bit.
If you ever wanna talk you are more than welcome to PM me anytime. My inbox is always open. I wish you the best of luck with this situation! Take care and best wishes~
"One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful." ~Sigmund Freud
Re: My Boyfriend is getting serious afer 2 days -
September 20th 2015, 11:14 AM
Hey there,
Speak to this guy and let him know you really like him but things are moving a little too fast for your liking. It is okay for you to not be ready for some things and this guy should respect you enough to go at your pace, if you just want to hold hands then that is fine. Maybe you should let him know that you don't feel comfortable discussing sex and kissing right now. If this guy likes you he will respect your wishes and calm down a little.
Go at your own pace and don't let yourself be pressured by this guy because you always have the choice of saying no to anything you don't want to do.