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Hah, I'm such a baby .... - May 14th 2009, 02:38 AM

Alright ... I'm not sure how to start this off.

I have basically one close friend in the entire school. She's nice, and is one of the only people I feel I can be myself around. Some of her friends are going out of their way to speak to me [because they're in a counseling circle with me, and were there when I told them how I tried to kill myself], and that's fine. That's not the problem.

The thing is, my friend is having a birthday. She told me about it yesterday, and I didn't think much about it. I assumed she'd have the party later ... and I also assumed I'd be invited when she did ... because we do talk a lot, and she seems to like me.

But I've heard from her friends about her birthday party being this weekend. And they're all going. Which made me feel like crap. To be honest, I'm a jealous person. I won't deny it. I've lost friends to other people before, and they were the only friends I had. But I'm usually able to control that part of me, because I'm smart enough to know the whole world does not revolve around me, and that my friends won't always be talking to me when they've got other friends around.

But this birthday thing is really tearing me up. I know she doesn't have the slightest idea I feel this way .... She's not a mean person, she's not intentionally hurting me. But I hate feeling like this ... I don't know what I'm supposed to do, guys.
   
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Re: Hah, I'm such a baby .... - May 14th 2009, 03:04 AM

maybe you could talk to your friend about how your feeling and how you might like to spend a little bit more time with her outside of school and not really bring up the birthday party and then she might invite you to the party? im sorry thats all i have. but i hope it works out for you and maybe you could try to find some more friends so when she is doing something with all her friends you could be doing something with your other friends (im not trying to be rude or anything i know how hard it can be to make new friends (i have social anxiety) im just trying to find ways to help you out and to improve the situation or stop in from happening in the future)


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Re: Hah, I'm such a baby .... - May 14th 2009, 03:22 AM

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maybe you could talk to your friend about how your feeling and how you might like to spend a little bit more time with her outside of school and not really bring up the birthday party and then she might invite you to the party? im sorry thats all i have. but i hope it works out for you and maybe you could try to find some more friends so when she is doing something with all her friends you could be doing something with your other friends (im not trying to be rude or anything i know how hard it can be to make new friends (i have social anxiety) im just trying to find ways to help you out and to improve the situation or stop in from happening in the future)
I've never had more than one friend, I think that's my problem. I have rather extreme social issues, so getting new friends is near impossible for me. She is only my friend because she wouldn't leave me alone for two seconds, even when I wasn't making conversation easy. Hence why I'm only ever friends with people that have others flocking to them. Because they're extremely outgoing.
And she's always in trouble with her parents for poor grades ... she's grounded so much it's near impossible to go out somewhere with her.
   
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Re: Hah, I'm such a baby .... - May 14th 2009, 10:51 PM

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I've never had more than one friend, I think that's my problem. I have rather extreme social issues, so getting new friends is near impossible for me. She is only my friend because she wouldn't leave me alone for two seconds, even when I wasn't making conversation easy. Hence why I'm only ever friends with people that have others flocking to them. Because they're extremely outgoing.
And she's always in trouble with her parents for poor grades ... she's grounded so much it's near impossible to go out somewhere with her.
yes i have many of the same problems and i too have never really had more than one friend i was just trying to make suggestions. umm hmm sorry i cant think of any other ways to improve the situation. i hope it works out though


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