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How to shake the feeling like you annoy all your friends? - May 21st 2016, 06:22 PM

Especially new friends. I feel like I annoy a lot of the people around me, which is part of why I end up withdrawing and not really communicating with anyone for periods of time.
Even when friends reassure me I'm not annoying, I still feel like I am and they're just being nice.

It leads to me apologizing a lot, which ends up just being even more annoying. I can't help it though. I'm just sick of making friends with awesome people, and feeling like I annoy them constantly, even when they do reassure me I don't.
   
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Re: How to shake the feeling like you annoy all your friends? - May 21st 2016, 11:25 PM

Cute avatar pic! And i feel the same especially with my bf for me like i felt like i annoy him when i ask whats wrong and stuff like that so i began asking things less that i think sound annoying :/
   
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Re: How to shake the feeling like you annoy all your friends? - May 22nd 2016, 05:17 PM

Reassurance can help a lot sometimes but I understand where you're coming from. I'm glad you feel comfortable enough to ask for that reassurance, though. Try to remind yourself that your friends wouldn't be your friends if they found you annoying. They're your friends because they want to be. They enjoy your company and want to spend time with you and if they didn't, they wouldn't have befriended you.


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Re: How to shake the feeling like you annoy all your friends? - May 22nd 2016, 05:32 PM

Hey,

I know exactly how you feel. I feel like I annoy my sister and my mother and my whole family. I don't make friends because I feel like I'm annoying and clingy.

I highly doubt that you are annoying and that you are just putting it in your own head.I think you just have to tell yourself that it's in your own head. I really think that your friends would tell you if you get annoying.

About the apologizing I do that so much and it annoys people because I have nothing to be sorry for. I think that every time you catch yourself about to say sorry for something you don't have to be sorry for just ask yourself is this something I really have to say sorry for? Or is it in my head? and if it is in your head don't say sorry but if you think you really have to say it.

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