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Unhappy Help. My life is tearing apart. - May 27th 2016, 12:32 AM

So . I live at my sister's house coz my mom's broke. We were a good fam but now my sister is all like. U r bad. Don't use computers phones. She says in her house I am not allowed to have recreation like playing video games and listening to music and watching tv and I got nothing to do so she is like pray. I told her ask me and I'll do anything for her and I do but I time when she said we are going outside I said In how long are we gonna take. She got mad at me. She keeps saying she wants to send me to froster home. She says no recreation allowed at home. She won't let me hang out with friends and now we moved to another place. So idk anybody here. She keeps saying I live in her house and so she has taken me in on humanitarian purposes. Idk anyone here. My mom is on my sister's side. I am just sad. Help.

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Re: Help. My life is tearing apart. - May 27th 2016, 06:10 PM

Is there some reason she won't let you hang out with friends or have some recreational time? I mean preying is good and all, is your family really religious or something?
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Re: Help. My life is tearing apart. - June 1st 2016, 12:38 AM

I'm sorry to hear you're experiencing this. It's hard to say why your sister is treating you like this, but I think being over protective of you is definitely a possibility. Do you think you can sit down with her, or write her a note and explain how you feel? Maybe the two of you can compromise.

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Re: Help. My life is tearing apart. - June 1st 2016, 11:34 PM

It is understandable that you would be upset by the way your sister is behaving. What can you do to deal with the behavior? Do you think your sister would be opposed to you trying to read some books in your free time? Maybe coming up with new activities to try and deal with her behavior could be helpful.

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Re: Help. My life is tearing apart. - June 2nd 2016, 06:22 AM

Really sorry to hear it. I think you should talk to both your sister and mother about how you feel with their behavior. Probably that could change things.

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