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Unhappy I hate my dad!!!!!! - May 18th 2009, 07:09 AM

My parents are getting divorced and im caught in the middle. My dad is taking his anger out on me through attitude every time he talks to me and even beats me on some occasions. I dont know if its enough to be considered child abuse so im trying to set it up so i can go live with mom. So i guess i dont have an exact question but i need help or an opinion, anything please!


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Re: I hate my dad!!!!!! - May 18th 2009, 09:57 AM

It is child abuse if he is beating you. And depending how serious the attitude problem is, it could be emotional abuse as well.

Make sure you end up with your mum. I'm not sure what else to say except for chin up, keep your head down and stay safe.



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Re: I hate my dad!!!!!! - May 18th 2009, 10:16 AM

Have you told your mum about it? Maybe she could do something more to help make sure you live with her instead of your dad because if he's beating you then that is child abuse and like said, if he's taking it out on you with attitude as well it can be classed as emotional abuse.
   
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Re: I hate my dad!!!!!! - May 18th 2009, 10:19 AM

Hello,

To answer your question, "yes" you are being abused by your dad. The verbal threats, tone and behavior from your father is emotional and psychological abuse. Also physical hitting by your father is physical abuse.
Honestly i could sit here and tell you to call the hotline or tell u about my story or even tell you that its gonna be alrite but ITS NOT. you need to get out. find sum1 who u can confide in an adult close friend sumwhere u know you'll be safe. Tell your mother... hopefully she will solve the problem for you
   
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Talking Re: I hate my dad!!!!!! - May 24th 2009, 04:49 AM

Well I finally stood up in front of the judge and mentioned all the points all of you mentioned and he decided that I will be staying with my mom most of the time, but i still had to stay with my dad at least once a week. My dad also has to be nicer or the once a week will stop. Thanks guys and ladies!


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Re: I hate my dad!!!!!! - May 25th 2009, 09:41 PM

Hi Michael,

I'm really glad this has worked out for you and that you're staying in a more positive environment. I hope your dad keeps up with what he has agreed to and that your relationship with him gets better.

I'm going to close this now, but if anything else comes up, please feel free to PM me any time or make a post

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