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i wish - May 18th 2009, 09:46 PM

I could change my boyfriend's controlling stepdad he won't let Chris or his twin mark do nothing they are stuck in their bedroom when hes in the house, their mum as to bring their food up to them they only get a little amount on the internet and its broadband, their not allowed anyone in the house when he's there. He treats their sister the same, except the youngest she's his favourite she's allowed people in the house and do whatever, but chris's mum won't say anything, i think she's scared. I just wanna change his ways

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Smile Re: i wish - May 19th 2009, 04:22 PM

Sometimes people had past experiances that may have affected them to act this way, try talking to his mother and see if she has anything to say about this.

My mother is quite stict with me but good with my brother because of past experiances. Try asking them and see what she says and have you heard your boyfriend's opinions? Try talking to them because its not to late and everyone should takes things in modoration.

Try asking and see what happens maybe it could just be fear of ajusting to moden times or things like that however if in the worst possible case it could be abuse I advise you to go and the athourities.

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Re: i wish - May 20th 2009, 09:35 PM

Hi Jodie,

Unfortunately I don't think there is much you can do about changing your boyfriend's stepdad. He may be controlling, but so far I do not think he's being harmful. Some parents are strict about letting people over, and about internet time, so I think that's pretty normal.

I'm wondering why it is your boyfriend listens to your stepdad? He may be strict, but I don't see what the problem is if he leaves his bedroom. He should be allowed to go around the house.

Right now, I think it might be a good idea if you hung out with your boyfriend outside of his house. Spend some time away from there, and go someplace fun. Also, you might want to suggest that your boyfriend go to the library or use a school computer if he needs to use the internet for more than his set time. And a talk with his mom wouldn't be a bad idea either.


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