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Best friend wants nothing to do with me - July 14th 2017, 03:45 AM

Her and I were inseparable up Until 2 week ago. She's basically the person I was always with and if we weren't at each other's house we were texting. Long story short I hung out with her and her other friend and they completely left me out the whole entire time. I ended up trailing behind them crying but nope, they didn't notice. At one point she asked me if something was wrong but I was already passed pissed and I just shook my head which was stupid of me. I ended up flipping her off and leaving... I know there were Bette ways to handle my anger but at the time I just couldn't. I reached out and apologized and explained how I felt 4 days after. She admitted she knew I was kinda left out but quickly ended the conversation. It's been over a week and she still hasn't talked to me at all. I see on her Facebook she's hanging out with a ton of people meanwhile I have no one. I've been waiting for her to text me first but I'm realizing she doesn't care... shes willing to throw out whole friendship over what I did I guess. I'm just so sad... the one person who knows me more than anyone else apparently hates me now. All of the pics of us in the room just reminds me and makes me feel worse. It feels horrible beyond words.
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Re: Best friend wants nothing to do with me - July 14th 2017, 02:02 PM

You said your friend left the conversation quickly so it doesn't sound like the two of you got to communicate much. She could have left early because she felt bad for leaving you out. Do you think you could try to talk to her again and see how that goes? It sounds like the two of you are pretty close and your friendship is worth working on if the two of you are both willing and able.

When you feel down it is understandable to want someone to initiate. But, your friend won't know that you want her to text first. If you want to talk to her, you may have to initiate the conversation.

Hopefully you will be able to work this out.

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