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Im so nervous - December 5th 2017, 12:46 AM

My bus driver decided to make assigned seats on the bus and he had this great idea of making me sit next to my crush. Like I said before me and my crush text a lot but we barely talk. I'm mostly nervous because of the small accent that I have, people say its cute but i don't get it. To me i sound restarted and that is why I'm so nervous. What if he will think I'm weird or Crazy. I also struggle with self image and stuff like that. I just feel that I'm too ugly and weird and it will all reflect on me tomorrow when we get our assigned seats. I know this is pretty stupid. I'm just really nervous and I don't know what to do. I don't want to seem weird or nerdy or shy. I usually am not shy around guys but with him I am just not myself.
   
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Re: Im so nervous - December 5th 2017, 01:01 PM

It must be hard to be yourself around your crush if you’re nervous to be around him. One thing to think about is that your accent is a part of you and it doesn’t matter what other people think of it. If he likes your accent that’s awesome but if he doesn’t appreciate it then there’s nothing you can do and it doesn’t reflect poorly on either one of you.

This must be nerve wracking for you but something to consider is re-framing your thoughts so you can think of this more of an opportunity to get to know him and be around him since he is important to you. you can do this!


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Re: Im so nervous - December 5th 2017, 06:26 PM

i'm nervous a lot when talking to someone but as for yourself, it really isn't fair or helpful to be put with him like that. What's wrong with all these people who think things like ohh won't this be nice for them? but in truth they have it so wrong
   
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Re: Im so nervous - December 6th 2017, 04:45 PM

Hello!

Maybe this might be an opportunity to get closer to him.. but also be careful as he may or may not be one of those guys who flirts around with girls and plays with their hearts.Perhaps maybe just take things as the come and let things happen naturally ( he might be feeling the same way too, you never know ) You're definitely not ugly because no one is. This is not stupid either.. everyone has encountered this at some point.

It'll be okay. Just stay away from him if he's a flirt.

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