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Unhappy I cant tell if people are fake or real. - April 10th 2019, 06:57 PM

Im tired of people who put on a show in front of others and act like they care for you but they dont. I've lost way too much friends that either blocked me or went somewhere where I cant talk to them anymore and it makes me think that they dont want to talk to me anymore. Im so tired of people. Why are people like this and think its okay to hurt you whenever they get upset for no reason? Its manipulation and its not a good trait to have. Im tired of people who fake care about you or try to act the part. Im trying to not give them the power over my feelings but every time it happens I want to put a wall up and stop being vulnerable around others. I want to scream, kick, and hit the people who screw me over. I want to believe people are bad rather being good because there's just so many people who are bad in this world. I dont know. My mind is already fucked up and people hurt and I rather not be hurt than letting people in



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Re: I cant tell if people are fake or real. - April 12th 2019, 01:12 PM

I'm sorry you feel like that. Feelings of betrayal and loss are definitely major reasons to develop trust issues and that sort of thing. I have definitely experienced it in my life.

Have you been able to ask these people why they are distancing themselves? It might help; they might have a reason that has nothing to do with you.

Do you do anything that allows you to develop healthier relationships? Sports, religious groups, creative/arts groups...
   
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Re: I cant tell if people are fake or real. - April 13th 2019, 09:15 PM

I'm sorry you are feeling this way, it's not good to have friends who let you down.

I don't have any solid advice, but I want you to know that not everyone is going to let you down. Keep trying and you will find that person who you can rely on and know they won't let you down.



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